Posts Tagged ‘fornication’
I was asked to watch a woman whom the elders suspect is committing fornication. Should I spy on someone because the elders ask?
Question: Good afternoon! I have been a member of the Lord’s church for about three years, after being brought to the church by my college roommate. I have been a dedicated reader of your site since I discovered it and appreciate all of the information provided. I have not seen anything on your website quite…
Read MoreI decided to stop having sex with the man I’ve been living with for nearly 15 years. Is that wrong?
Question: I have been with my boyfriend for nearly fifteen years. We live together and have a preteen child. It’s a new year and I decided not to have sex with him until he asks me to marry him. Is that wrong? Is it wrong to sleep in the bed with him, even though I…
Read MoreI married a woman to do the right thing, but now I regret it
Question: To make a long story short, 17 years ago I got a woman pregnant. I was living in one state, she was in another. I was there on a visit and had grown up there. I was not saved at the time. I felt guilty because I knew that the woman would drag my…
Read MoreI had sex before with a different woman. Does that mean I’m committing adultery with the woman I am with?
Question: Please. Please, I have many things I have to ask. A woman took my virginity, but it was only for a night. I’m with a different woman now and have been with her for five years. Is that adultery? Answer: Fornication is when you have sex with someone you are not married to. Thus,…
Read MoreWhat is “Sexual Immorality” in Matthew 19:9?
by Kyle Butt, M.A. via Apologetics Press Copied by permission. From Genesis to Revelation, the Bible repeatedly stresses the fact that God designed the institution of marriage (Genesis 2:22-25). He has, from the beginning of human history, given very specific ideas about what composes a divinely approved marriage (Matthew 19:1-4), consisting of one man and one woman.…
Read MoreMy wife told me she had sex before we were married, and I can’t let it go
Question: We have been married for nearly 40 years. About two years ago, in an argument over needing to enjoy each other in bed while we can because someday we want to be able to, somehow things I didn’t know came out. When we started dating, my wife played the organ in a Baptist church.…
Read MoreI think I love a man who is a player
Question: Hi there. I’m really lost in love. I’m a Christian and I’ve been searching for love for a long time. I’ve been used for sex so many times. I’ve been in relationships based on sex. I don’t know why I attract these types of guys. I really do want to settle down and have…
Read MoreI just committed fornication, again
Question: Good morning minister, At this very moment, as I am writing you, I’ve just committed fornication. I have sinned greatly. My eyes are full of tears. I’m ashamed to even ask God for His forgiveness again. I am struggling with this sinful act. I’m a Christian. I pray. I read my Bible. But because…
Read MoreShould I break up with my boyfriend now, or wait until next spring?
Question: Hi, I read one of your articles on your site, and I wanted to ask a similar question concerning my non-believing boyfriend. I never had intentions of going out with a non-believer, and I’m not sure of how things turned out this way. I never intended this to happen, but somehow it happened. He’s…
Read MoreI haven’t been good. I came down with diabetes. I had sex when I was drunk. Why did this have to happen?
Question: I am 19 and have been through a lot in my life. When I was two my parents were divorced. Between the ages of around 5 to 12, I was allergic to corn. My family had been very close to God and at that time I grew up in the church and wanted to…
Read MoreNow that I have turned from my sins, will God bring my girlfriend back?
Question: When I met my ex, I had just gotten out of a horrible relationship that I was fighting for constantly every day. My ex fought for me on so many levels to the point where I finally gave in and began dating her. She was in love with me way before I even thought…
Read MoreWill God bring my boyfriend back to take responsibility for me and our soon-to-be-born child?
Question: Good Afternoon, I am a strong believer and was recently engaged to a believer for about a year and a half. We had an amazing relationship until things took a hard toll in our relationship when we lost our son at 7 months into pregnancy. Things began getting harder for us since we did…
Read MoreI engaged in immoral behavior with a woman. Does this mean I cannot marry?
Question: I’m a member of the church, but lately, I’ve made a poor, sinful choice by going somewhere I was tempted. I went to a massage parlor for the sole purpose of helping my body. Later during the massage, I engaged in some immoral foreplay activities with the woman there. I’ve been reflecting on my…
Read MoreI grew up in a family that didn’t love or want me. How do I learn to love?
Question: I was born into a family that didn’t love me because I’m black and Mexican mixed with heart disease. My mother left me in the hospital for a week when I was born because she didn’t want me, and neither did her mother and her family. When she got me back, I was torched…
Read MoreHow do I get my boyfriend to be a better Christian?
Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for two years; and, yup, you guessed it, we fell into sexual sin within a year into our relationship. I want to stop. I know I can make it happen with the help of Christ. How else can I make this possible? Also, I have another issue:…
Read MoreIf I put my fingers in her private area, is that fornication?
Question: Hey, God bless. I have a question: My girl and I converted several weeks ago. Ever since then, we haven’t had sexual intercourse, but last night we started kissing and it go to a point where I had my hand on her private part. I sort of rubbed her for like 30 seconds and…
Read MoreCan’t I have sex only with the girl I intend to marry?
Question: I am a young man who has a great passion for the Lord Jesus, but my conscience is not serving me right. The reason is that I have proposed marriage to a beautiful young lady whom I love so much with all my life, but this sex and fornication is making me go crazy.…
Read MoreDoes God hate me because I am bisexual?
Question: I’m positive I’m bisexual. I’m a virgin but I have a strong sexual attraction to both males and females. I just wanted to know. Does God hate me and am I going to hell for a feeling I was born with and a feeling I cannot change? Answer: To be bisexual means that you have sex…
Read MoreWe’ve been living together for years, how can we stop committing fornication?
Question: Hello, I got pregnant at the age of 17, I am now 21 and am still with the father of my baby. I’ve always gone to church since I was young but about a few months ago I realized that I needed to take my life more serious and also realized that I’m committing…
Read MoreMy girlfriend and I committed fornication. Can we still have a church wedding?
Question: Hi, I’m a nearly 30-year-old man. I want to pose a question which I feel embarrassed for doing an ungodly thing in my life. I have been in a relationship since the beginning of the year, and my girlfriend and I were having a physical relationship for more than a month. We are planning…
Read MoreI know I need to change, but I just can’t leave my boyfriend
Question: Hello. God bless you. I really need advice, help, or answer. I am a pastor’s daughter. I have been raised in a church my entire life. As many know just because you are brought up in a church does not mean we are perfect or will do all of the correct things. I have…
Read MoreI was engaged to a woman, but I married the woman I got pregnant. Now she refuses to divorce me
Question: Kindly advise me on what to do. I got a lady impregnated. When she told me, I said if that be the case then she has to keep it, but she refused. She insisted that she would abort it. I disagreed with her, but she insisted on aborting it. She demanded money at that…
Read MoreI committed fornication, but I am determined not to do so again. Why do I not feel forgiven?
Question: I read your answer to a lady on God forgiving fornication. My story is similar to hers, but I lost my virginity. My parents are not the strong Christian type, but I had high standards for myself. I never had a boyfriend until I was 21 years old. My seeking attention and someone to…
Read MoreDid I hurt the reputation of my ex-boyfriend?
Question: Over five years ago, I met a man who became my boyfriend. He was a deacon in his church. He brought me to his church and there I attended. He has a history of being involved in multiple relationships before being converted to Christ many years ago. He has been divorced and has grown children from…
Read MoreHow can we not commit fornication again before our wedding?
Question: My fiancé and I had sex even when we agreed not to, though all necessary plans to get married are on the ground. But I feel so guilty and alone. Forgiveness is what I need from God to face life again. Actually, we had decided not to have sex again, but I have no…
Read MoreWhat you said about the whole sexual immorality subject is very beneficial
Question: Dear Preacher, I’d like to thank you for your answer about the whole sexual immorality subject. I found what you said very beneficial and for that, I say, “thank you.” I think what you do is a good thing because I think that you shine a light on people who are in the dark.…
Read MoreSince I blamed God for my miserable childhood and left God, is it possible to return and be saved?
Question: I’ve had a lot of anger toward God. When I was a child I was molested by a family member who lived in our house. My father was an alcoholic (he got help when I was in high school) who would abuse my mother, threaten to kill her and try to kill my mother…
Read MoreHow do I stop committing fornication? (2)
Question: Good afternoon sir, I am a 26-year-old guy. Please, I have been having challenges with stopping fornication. Even after hearing the word, I still find myself misbehaving and this happens when I am really determined to set my heart spiritually before God. Sir, I also really want a true destined wife for myself, someone…
Read MoreAm I married because I did sexual acts with my girlfriend?
Question: I am 21 years old. I have been dating a girl my same age for about 6 months. We are both baptized Christians but have made serious mistakes. About a month ago, she gave me a hand-job. This happened three times but after the third time, I felt awful about it and have told…
Read MoreHow do we avoid the temptation to have sex?
Question: I am 23 years of age and a college student. I have been in a relationship for over a year now. My motive for being in the relationship is to be with my partner now and stay with her until God blesses us to marry. My problem is how do I handle my sexual…
Read MoreWhat is the difference between adultery and fornication?
Question: I was just wondering: I think that if someone sleeps with a married person but they are not married, they now to are committing adultery? And if that person, who was not married, sleeps with someone else later in life, who is not married, does that new person commit adultery too? Just wondering how…
Read MoreI know it’s wrong, but I do not know what happens when we are together
Question: I am writing this due to the guilt that I am having. I am born again and I minister in our church on the altar in one way or another, though I am not a preacher. I am 25 years old and last year I met with my boyfriend and we clicked. We fell…
Read MoreIs it wrong to marry a non-believer?
Question: “While it is not generally advisable to marry someone who is not a Christian, it is not wrong either.” You mentioned this in your answer and this is the first time I heard a Christian advisor giving such advice. I came to know the Lord years ago. Several years ago I drifted away, and I was engaged…
Read MoreHow do I repent of something I enjoyed?
Question: Hello, I’m a Christian and I am a praise and worship leader and a Sunday school teacher in my church. For a while, I have been struggling with my fiance to not have sex, even though we started before but not completing it. However, today we did have sex, and I don’t know how…
Read MoreHow do I let go of my girlfriend’s past?
Question: I am 21 and have been a Christian since I was 8, I am a virgin and plan to stay that way until I get married. A while back I started dating a girl who I had met at church, she had only been a Christian for about a year and a half. I…
Read MoreI have a fiance, but I committed adultery against her. What can I do?
Question: Well, where do I start? I’m 21 years old. I have a child and a girlfriend whom I love so much! But recently, I committed a sin — I committed adultery! I feel really bad, so bad I cry myself to sleep sometimes. I feel awful! I feel disgusted with myself! I can’t sleep…
Read MoreI feel I don’t deserve anything. Should I give up on getting married?
Question: I am in my early twenties and had a godly life since childhood. I had sworn to remain a virgin until marriage, but last year I had this boyfriend who promised we would get married. We had sex. Later he broke up with me claiming I was unfaithful since he lived far away, but…
Read MoreCan a Christian who knowingly commits fornication be forgiven?
Question: Is the sin of having sex many times before marriage while being a Christian and knowing it was a sin forgivable? I have been raised up in a Christian family and I am a Christian myself and believe in Jesus. I believe I am saved. Even though I know this and I clearly know…
Read MoreI want to repent and change my future, so should I dump my boyfriend?
Question: I came to the United States when I was 14 years old. I used to be Baptist until we came to Utah and my parents converted to the LDS church. I’m currently not an active member of the LDS church. When I turned 18, I started dating a young man. We stayed boyfriend and…
Read MoreMy boyfriend and I fell into sexual sin. How do we get our parents’ trust back?
Question: I have a question and unfortunately, I don’t have good, godly influences in my life. I would appreciate any help. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a little over a year. We are a long distance apart, and it was one of the reasons I agreed to start seeing him.…
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