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Does premarital sex make you married or cursed?

April 16, 2016

Question: I know you are super busy all the time, but if you get a chance sometime, could you help untangle my spiritual thoughts? I am asking for help regarding two theologies out there concerning marriage: One theology is that the first person you have sex with you are married to and any after that…

Really informative stuff

October 29, 2015

Question: Wow! Really informative stuff in “Why is sex a sin?” You’ve addressed all the questions that always bothered me. Thank you so much. I also like the point you made that “sex before marriage is a sin because God said so.” It’s absolutely true that whatever He instructs us to do will benefit us…

Why did God say the woman’s desire would be for her husband when men seem to have the stronger sexual desire for the woman?

September 19, 2015

Question: One thing I have never understood is that God told Eve, the woman, that her desire would be for her husband, Adam, the man. Yet, it is a man’s desire for a woman — physically, romantically, and sexually — that has always been much stronger than a woman’s is for a man. As evidenced by…

I was surprised that you accused a person of lying and why are sexual issues talked about so much?

July 18, 2015

Question: Hi brother Hamilton, I was on your website earlier and I was kind of shocked at a response. For the date of 7/8, you answered/addressed one question about spilling seed. You accused the author of lying in your response which I didn’t understand. Maybe you were having a bad day. It just seemed out…

Is the only way to have sex is if one is married?

July 13, 2015

Question: Good evening, I’m sure you get a lot of questions that are related to sexual intercourse and the like; however, it is difficult to fully grasp and understand the word of God when it doesn’t match the heart’s desires. What I’m asking is if the only way that one can have sexual intercourse is…

I appreciate the way you answered a delicate question

March 17, 2015

Question: I appreciate the way you answered the question that was asked, “Is it a sin for a Christian woman to use a sex toy?” I was afraid to ask my pastor that question, and it has really been bothering me, I had gone to other websites and typed the question in, but no one…

Is it wrong for a husband to lust for his wife?

December 24, 2014

Question: Dear Minister, My wife and I have grown distant over the years because she has had many anger issues, substance abuse problems, and trouble with the law. We have several beautiful children and have been married for almost 20 years. Even though she committed adultery on me several years ago, I still love her.…

What can I do? My husband seems to have no desire for sex

November 11, 2014

Question: Hello, I am a woman and my question is regarding sexual lust and perversion; therefore, you can understand my asking you and not my home pastor, especially when most churches still regard women who struggle with these sorts of issues with a certain type of disdain. As were most females with my issues you…

I’m not interested in getting married, but how do I deal with my sex drive?

November 9, 2014

Question: I am a 19-year-old college student, have never dated in my life, and am never planning to. I plan to go into the mission field once I graduate, and I have decided that it would probably be best to never marry in order to be able to focus on my ministry. However, I have…

Abstinence Is Reasonable

October 31, 2014

by David Diestelkamp via Think on These Things “For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication” (I Thessalonians 4:3). Society is totally confused. It wants people to be reasonable (thinking, logically) about sex. It wants them to think about civil law, time and place (decency), disease, pregnancy, “protection,”…