How do we define a Christian friend?

Question: Hi, I was going through ‘How do I deal with non-Christian friends?’ Several questions went through my mind. How do we define ‘Christian’ friend? Because I have friends in the Lord’s church who are there, because. well. that’s where they were born. Then I have other friends who are Pentecostals and SDAs who, though…

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I told my fiance the truth and he left me. Now, what do I do?

Question: I was going through your website and came across a testimony of how God restored a relationship. I am going through the same phase in life right now, and I need your guidance and advice. I was supposed to get married in a few months but everything got called off because of my lie.…

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Is it useless to pray for a wife?

Question: When it comes to marriage, I know that we are the ones who chose who we are with. I know that God did not make nor designed a special person for you and there are millions of people on the planet with which we can possibly be happy. So is praying for a wife…

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The Importance of a Biblical Worldview

by Allan Turner All of us see ourselves and our world through a particular set of beliefs, attitudes, and values. These operate as a filter or grid through which we process all information. For the Christian, this filter or grid is shaped by the truths taught in the Bible. The Bible, of course, has a…

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Why Is Evil Allowed?

https://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/cms/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/WhyIsEvilAllowed.mp3 by Jeffrey W. Hamilton Text: Ecclesiastes 8:6-13   I.         It has happened again. Incomprehensible horror has struck to kill innocent children.             A.        But we want to know why? Why did it happen? Why couldn’t it be stopped?             B.        I’ve seen guns blamed, drugs blamed, psychological problems blamed, schools blamed, and, yes, even God blamed – Psalms 10:1…

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Can I remarry after both my husband and I have committed adultery?

Question: Hello. I need your help and guidance. I’m currently in the process of a divorce, which has been going on for two years now. My ex-husband and I were very young when we decided to live together. I was 16 and he was 17. I admit that I latched onto him because I wanted…

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Do I tell my friend that homosexuality is wrong?

Question: One of my friends, who has been depressed, is a bit more open-hearted to Christianity than my other friends. I’ve seen her praying. She’s said to me she’s going to pray for something a few times. But she is bi, and she’s in love with a girl, who’s in love with her too. It…

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How can I know why my boyfriend was divorced?

Question: Hi, I’m a member of the church of Christ and my boyfriend became a member a few months ago. We have been seeing each other for a year and a half. He told me that he was married before, but they were only married for about two months before they filed for a divorce.…

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How do I deal with non-Christian friends?

Question: My three best friends are all agnostics or atheists or something like that. They donīt seem to care about my faith. One of them swears very often, and we tell many kinds of perverted jokes or innuendo-jokes and things like that when I see them. I don’t know if they are a very good…

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How were all the animals feed on the ark?

Question: Hi, I have a question about Noah’s Ark that I recently stumbled upon. With all the animals that God brought to Noah for the Ark, how did the animal feces get thrown out? Did all eight people take care of all of that and take care of the animals with food, etc.? Answer: God…

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Are body hair, ear wiggling, and such things proof of evolution?

Question: I was watching a video, and on it, it showed that there was a remnant of another eyelid on humans or something like that, and then said that it could have been used for sweeping dirt out of the eyes (or something like that). I think they were saying that that would have been…

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Do the appendix, wisdom teeth, and tailbone show we evolved?

Question: Why do we have an appendix? Or wisdom teeth? My teacher said we don’t need them. Also, why do we have a tailbone? Doesn’t that show we evolved? Answer: Vestigial organs and structures are a classical example of the arrogance of some people. It has long been assumed that if a part of the…

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Is the biblical account of Creation not meant to be taken literally?

Question: I actually once wrote an article my junior year of high school titled “Creationism vs. Evolution”, and my entire paper was about how Creationism was right and Evolution was wrong. However, over the years I’ve come across so much evidence arguing for the sake of evolution in the world. I also have come to…

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What is the difference between venting and gossiping?

Question: I have a friend that shares with me about other coworkers that have either said something that she did not like or hurt her feelings, in the past and currently, and I was wondering what exactly is the difference between just venting and gossiping.  She sometimes begins by saying “I am just venting,” which sometimes I know that I do,…

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Selections from Psalms

https://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/cms/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/SelectionsFromPsalms.mp3 by PJ Anderson

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Why do I feel detached from those I forgive?

Question: Dear Jeff, I have a personal predicament on my hands: I don’t think I’m forgiving enough to the point of mending relationships or maintaining friendships. I mean, I can look at plenty of Bible verses about forgiveness, and I do, but at best it just makes me detach myself away from the person as…

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Who is the god of this world?

Question: Who is the god of this world in II Corinthians 4:4? I thought it was Satan, but I was told that it was referring to Christ and was given Isaiah 6:8-13, Matthew 13:12-17, and Acts 28:25-28 as validation for that interpretation. If you could explain in a lay term why those are being taken…

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I’m really scared of how my body responses to strong emotions

Question: Hello! Thank you for considering a biblical answer to my question!  I am a 37-year-old believer in Christ since childhood, mother and wife to my believing husband for over ten years.  I have a spiritual conflict that has bothered me from just before my marriage. It has become like an obsessive-compulsive fear or disorder…

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This teaching on Song of Songs chapter 4 is amazing!

Question: This teaching on the Song of Songs chapter 4 is amazing! My husband and I have been married for six years and are going through some challenges sexually. Where can I find more teachings broken down just like this one but on other subjects? Answer: The entire website contains information on a wide variety of topics,…

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How do I overcome my attraction to men?

Question: Hi, Not sure if you can help me because I am older than the guys you are helping but any advice you could give would be much appreciated.  I am a single, 32-year-old male and have struggled with gay thoughts and urges most of my life.  I have never given into these urges and…

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I found some statements on an atheist site that disturb me

Question: Good day, brother! I’ve found from an atheist site these statements. Is God really all-powerful? Omnipotent? Is it true that He can do anything? If this is the case, why has God not already defeated and destroyed Satan? Wouldn’t it have made more sense to conquer Satan before Adam and Eve could be tempted…

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Your article on Christian liberty was very good

Question: Dear Brother Hamilton, Thank you for your article on “Finding Liberty in Silence.”  It was very good. I have been searching for articles and lessons on the topic of Christian liberty because recently I have encountered a few brethren who have commented to me that “we have Christian liberty that allows us to dismiss…

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Marijuana Smoking Isn’t Healthy

Source: Kathleen Doheny, “Recreational Marijuana: Are There Health Effects?” WebMD, 11 December 2012. Lung Damage “‘Putting smoke in your lungs is not good for the lungs,’ says Roland Lamarine, HSD, professor of public health at California State University, Chico. … Some research shows that marijuana smoke has up to 70% more cancer-causing substances than tobacco…

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Why are your questions on prostitution so one-sided?

Question: Why are these questions to ask oneself regarding prostitutes so one-sided? Is the soul of a person ignorant of God’s laws any less valuable to God? Who are you to judge who’s ensnaring who? Answer: Let me apply your question to another topic: “Why are these questions about stealing so one-sided? Is the soul of…

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Sexting and Pornography Among Early Teens

Source: Daniel Martin, “Sex texts epidemic: Experts warn sharing explicit photos is corrupting children,” Daily Mail Online, 10 December 2012. The news merely confirms what we already knew: the age at which children are being exposed to sex is dropping. The following are interesting quotes pulled from the article. “Boys and girls as young as 13…

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Am I banned from Heaven because of my fornication?

Question: Hello, I am a strong believer in God and Christ. I try so hard to live a righteous life. I’m only 20. I have had sex before in the past, but now I’m saving myself for marriage because I want to please God. I previously slipped up with someone I was in a relationship…

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