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I want to tell my fiance about something bad from my past, but I’m afraid he’ll leave me
Question: I want to tell my fiance about what has happened in my past that is bad. I am worried he will leave me. Please help me. Answer: “Have I therefore become your enemy because I tell you the truth?” (Galatians 4:16). First off, the question is: Does he need to know? Reasons he might…
Read MoreMy boyfriend dumped me because I wasn’t Christian enough for him
Question: To begin, I am in my forties and have been divorced (due to adultery by my husband) for over five years. I was dating a man a few years older than myself with a similar background. We dated for nine months and he ended things with me because he needed to be with an…
Read MoreI decided to get married even though my parents object. Am I wrong in seeking my own desire?
Question: I am a 25-year-old Christian. I recently graduated from a university. A year before graduation I met the man of my dreams. He was picked by God for me from among many others who wanted a marriage relationship. I asked God to choose for me in prayer and fasting and He did. Ever since…
Read MoreI thought I was meeting a Christian, but he touched me inappropriately
Question: I feel so terrible about this. I have strictly been focusing on Christ for over a year now. I promised myself to wait on God until I can say “yes” to the man whom God has for me. I started talking to this guy who presented himself as a God-fearing man. He had devotion…
Read MoreIs it right for husbands to stay home and raise the children?
Question: I have a question about providing for the family. I know that if you don’t provide you are like the unbelievers, but what about stay-at-home dads who care for kids? I know is not easy taking care of a household: kids, laundry, etc. Do you think it is right in God’s eyes? Answer: “But…
Read MoreDoesn’t Matthew 6:17 tell us to anoint ourselves?
Question: Hi, I am a member of the church in Indiana. This morning, I was studying fasting, and like always, I drifted off into another topic (I’m sure this happens to you and many Christians). That’s one reason why God’s Word is so good: You can never have enough. As I stated, I was studying…
Read MoreIf I said something that I later regret, do I have to keep my word?
Question: I’m having a hard time knowing whether or not I have made certain vows and if I ought to keep them. Someone explained to me that when Jesus says “Let your yes be yes and your no be no,” his point isn’t that vowing/swearing/making oaths are wrong (which is what some people have taken…
Read MoreSex was never fun and I stopped having sex with my husband. Can I divorce him?
Question: I just read your article, Can a man divorce his wife for not having sex with him? I am a reborn child of God and married. We have children together. We haven’t had sexual relations since my smallest kid. I refuse because: We had, and still have, a lot of problems together with bad arguments, fights,…
Read MoreHow can the world be 6,000 years old when there are empires and dynasties that are older?
Question: First of all, I wanted to thank you for all your help. Your site has definitely helped me get closer to God. Now, onto the question: When atheists look at the timeline it goes back billions of years or whatever, and it seems like everything falls into place over the course of that long…
Read MoreHow do you humble yourself in front of the Lord?
Question: How do you humble yourself in front of the Lord? Answer: To be humble is the opposite of being prideful. A prideful man only listens to his own desires. He acts in accord with his own wishes. “But He gives more grace. Therefore He says: “God resists the proud, But gives grace to the…
Read MoreDoes Ecclesiastes contain statements that don’t make sense to Christians?
Question: In your article, “Do people know what is happening on earth after their death?”, you plainly state the dead don’t know what happens on Earth. After looking at Coffman’s Commentaries on Ecclesiastes 9 he points out interesting points in the chapter. If dead refers to “dead people” in verse 5, what is meant by…
Read MoreWe have a new preacher teaching unity in a diversity of beliefs
Question: Our congregation recently has a new preacher. He is related to half the church members and is well-known in the community. But he is very liberal and has admitted to me that he wants to change things at our congregation. He told me, “he is about a relationship with Christ, and I am about…
Read MoreWhy do some use titles?
Question: Hello brother Hamilton. Hope you’re doing well. I have a question that pertains to “titles” given to those in position in the church and mainly I’m speaking on preachers and the title that some give themselves such as reverend, pastor, evangelist, etc. Now, I read some of your articles which has helped me, but…
Read MoreI used to think that pornography was just a means of cooling one’s sexual urge, but now I know better.
Question: I used to think that pornography was a means of cooling one’s sexual urge because I am not yet married. But thanks to your ministry for this great enlightenment and exposure which has made me a conqueror today. Answer: I’m glad the information has helped you to get out of sin.
Read MoreIs being implacable condemned?
Question: Is being implacable condemned in Romans 1:31? “Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful” (Romans 1:31, KJV) “Without understanding, covenant-breakers, without natural affection, unmerciful” (Romans 1:31, ASV) Thanks for your time. Answer: The Greek word aspondous (irreconcilable) doesn’t appear in all the manuscripts. Because it also appears in a similar list in II Timothy…
Read MoreI’ve been reading your material for years and it has helped my growth in Christ
Question: Thanks, brother Hamilton, I want to tell you that I read a lot of your material on the La Vista Church of Christ website. I have been doing so for years, and it has helped me with my growth in Christ I pray that it will continue to do so. I ask that you…
Read MoreIs the love of money the root of all evil?
Question: The Bible says that the love of money is the root of all evil. Does it mean that all evil including evil that’s in our heart? Is the evil that people do seen or unseen? Or does it mean the greed for the love of money? People also skip out on the word for…
Read MoreWe appreciate the clarity of your message about Oprah’s spiritual crusade
Question: Dear Sir, My fiancee and I were reading one of your articles covering Oprah’s spiritual crusade in America. We really appreciated the clarity of your message as well as your church’s mission. Thank you for being willing to write the truth about who Jesus was and what He came for. I just wanted to encourage…
Read MoreMy boyfriend and I committed fornication. Should we split up?
Question: Dear sir, Thanks for your online forum to allow for such questions. I’m in my mid-twenties and my boyfriend is in his early thirties. I’ve known him for about 3 years and we’ve been together for about a year and a half now. We are both independent people who do love God. He has…
Read MoreMy husband threw me out of the house and divorced me, leaving me and one of my children homeless. What do you suggest I do?
Question: Hello, I have a difficult situation that I need help with. I’m a member of the Lord’s church, the church of Christ. My husband and I divorced two years ago and we have several children together, one of which my husband is not the biological father, but he raised my child since he was…
Read MoreThis seems like a church really modeled after the basic foundations of Jesus and on the narrow path
Question: This seems like a church really modeled after the basic foundations of Jesus and on the narrow path. I found this to be refreshing and truthful in the Spirit. Thanks. Answer: Thank you. I hope you find the material here on the website useful in your studies.
Read MoreDoes fornication mean my salvation is lost permanently?
Question: Good evening, I was wondering if you could help me with a question that has been haunting me for some time. My current husband and I partook in premarital sex for about a year and a half before we finally got married. We were both Christians at the time but fell prey to our…
Read MoreI used some of your materials to teach others. Thank you
Question: Dear Brother, I don’t know who you are but I want to tell you that the articles you have on your congregation’s website are fantastic. I am a member of the church. I am at the present studying the Bible with two people, one is a retired doctor who is a Seven Day Adventist…
Read MoreA guy wants to marry me, but he wants to move in with me first. What do I do?
Question: Hi, I just left a cohabiting relationship after four years. The only good thing that came out of it was my daughter. But there is this guy who wants to marry me, but he wants to move in with me first. What should I do? I don’t want to repeat the same mistake twice.…
Read MoreShould the husband lead Bible discussions and prayers when the family is gathered together?
Question: Hi, If God were to bless me with a wife and kids, I would like for the family to have Bible study sessions as a family. Would it be proper for my wife to lead the discussions at times? Or to pray? Or it should always be the husband? How about the kids? Answer:…
Read MoreShould I apologize again to a man who is also seeing another woman?
Question: Hello, I have been talking to this guy for just under a year. He decided that he was saved and wanted to give himself to Christ. He and I have engaged in sex already. Anyway, he met this girl who has been helping him out in his life. He uses her car to get…
Read MoreHow can I convince my husband that marriage is not about sex?
Question: Hello, and God bless! My question is a hard question, but I desperately need an answer. I’m a Christian and so is my husband. I have the most wonderful husband ever. He does so much for me and has sacrificed so much for me. He even sold or gave away everything he owned and…
Read MoreWe keep committing fornication, though we try not to
Question: I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We are in our 20s. He got closer to God when he went to jail. He got out and he started reading to me and getting me closer to God. We’ve made mistakes though. We have been having sex outside of…
Read MoreThank you for focusing on the soul of man instead of the artificial needs of men
Question: Brother Jeffrey, I just wanted to say thank you. You and I do not know one another, for we have never met. I was surfing the internet this morning and stumbled across the La Vista Church of Christ website and I must say that I enjoyed looking it over at great length. I especially enjoyed the home page and…
Read MoreI’ve been struggling with being sexually pure
Question: I am a 27-year-old Christian virgin male who wants to wait for marriage for sex. I have struggled with maintaining sexual purity, however. I have struggled and been addicted to porn off and on since I was maybe 12 years old. I remember the first time I ever masturbated to completion, I felt so…
Read MoreWhat more can I do for my ex-wife who lost a child?
Question: Good afternoon Brother Hamilton and all the brethren at the La Vista congregation. I’m hoping you can offer me some guidance on a complicated issue: My former wife’s son recently died in a very tragic fashion. He and I had a great relationship while his mother and I were married and maintained occasional contact…
Read MoreIs an elder an elder for life?
Question: A brother in our area is claiming to be “an elder for life” even though he has moved from one congregation to another and has not been a serving elder in either. He was an elder for a congregation, but that eldership was dissolved because of his domineering attitude and holding this and other false…
Read MoreIf my wife divorces me and then marries again, does that free me to marry again?
Question: I have always believed that man’s written divorce means nothing to God. And you reinforce my thinking when you mention that God is the one who decides when the marriage covenant ends. Doesn’t this mean that even though she wants a divorce (by man’s laws), and I do not, that we are still married…
Read MoreYour site is a blessing in more ways than you know
Question: God bless you. La Vista Church of Christ is an answer to my prayers since I have not been able to find a local church where I can worship our Lord. I find the messages extremely anointed and they explain the Lord’s thoughts so well. I am a mature believer of over thirty years…
Read MoreThank you for the explanation of Exodus 4:24-26
Question: Thank you, Carey, for the explanation and for sharing your resources. It was most helpful. I’m going to read the Bible in a year this year and I came across Exodus 4:24-26, so I’m glad I found this article of yours. Answer: I’m glad you found the article useful.
Read MoreFor if you must be physically immersed in water to be saved, then the blood and Jesus Christ has no power
Question: As a Nazarene Pastor, I wonder about what you have written. As a Christian, I can not judge your salvation. Unless you truly believe that it is the water and not the blood of Christ that saves you. I have read your web site. I am impressed with your research. I was surprised at…
Read MoreWhy didn’t John the Baptist get killed with the rest of the children?
Question: Why didn’t John the Baptist die, as is stated in Matthew 2:16, but lived to adulthood, baptized Jesus, and was ultimately beheaded, or is Matthew 2:16 simply wrong? Answer: When the wise men came, Herod found out where the Messiah was to be born. “And when he had gathered all the chief priests and…
Read MoreThe urge is getting really strong. Should I marry my girlfriend because of this?
Question: Hey, I’m a brother in the church, I’m 21 and I’m a virgin. I am struggling far as thoughts, urges, etc. It’s getting harder each year to contain. Each year the urge gets stronger. I have a girlfriend, she is in the church. She is a great help to the church, and she encourages…
Read MoreI was asked to watch a woman whom the elders suspect is committing fornication. Should I spy on someone because the elders ask?
Question: Good afternoon! I have been a member of the Lord’s church for about three years, after being brought to the church by my college roommate. I have been a dedicated reader of your site since I discovered it and appreciate all of the information provided. I have not seen anything on your website quite…
Read MoreI feel bad because I told the principal that a boy hit my boy and they expelled that boy
Question: Hi, I feel so bad about myself because my boy’s friend hit my boy. I spoke with the principal and I told him that not every school has the program that he needs. My son’s friend has problems but the school doesn’t help. I felt like I did bad, saying what I said. I…
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