Posts Tagged ‘fornication’
God won’t send someone to hell just for pre-marital sex, will He?
Question: As I explored your web site, I noticed it wasn’t a medical web site, it as a religious site. Well, I have another question for you then, if you don’t mind me asking too many questions. This one is actually coming from my fiance and me. We are working with a long distant relationship.…
Read MoreShould I tell my boyfriend about my promiscuous past?
Question: I have started dating a very godly man. While I am now a devoted Christian who will not get into any physical relationship until marriage, I did have sex in the past. You have no idea how much I regret my past and wish I could undo it but I am only thankful for…
Read MoreIs a woman still a virgin if a man’s penis only goes in a little way?
Question: Is one still a virgin if a man’s penis head slips in the entrance of a woman’s genitals but not all the way? My friend thinks a girl is still one, but I would like to be sure. Thanks for your time. Answer: Your friend is trying to excuse her misbehavior by making the definition of her…
Read MoreWhat are my chances of being pregnant?
Question: My boyfriend ejaculated inside me twice without a condom. I had an abortion around February. What are my chances of being pregnant? Answer: If 100 married couples were regularly having sex and using no contraceptive, the odds are that in one year 85 have the couples will have conceived a child. The fact that…
Read MoreShould I marry the girl I got pregnant or the girl that I love?
Question: Needing some scriptural advice. I got a girl pregnant, or so she claims. I know that was a sin and have sought forgiveness with God. My confusion is here: I don’t feel like she’s the best Christian woman for me, actually, she and I fight often. I have a life long friend who I…
Read MoreWhat do you think about a woman who smokes pot while pregnant?
Question: I’m interested in a girl, interested enough to get serious about her. She’s pregnant with another boy’s baby (he dumped her), but that’s all right with me, I’ve made similar mistakes. But she smokes — mostly cigarettes, but sometimes pot. I’m not certain, but I really like her. What do you think? Answer: While…
Read MoreCan a young couple make a covenant even though their parent won’t allow them to marry?
Question: If a holy couple is in love, and is having a child on the way and wants to bring the child in right, but one of the mate’s parents does not agree with marrying so young. So the couple brings their relationship to God because they both have strong relationship with Him. And they…
Read MoreCan you get pregnant from oral sex?
Question: About a week ago I was fooling around with this boy and I gave him oral sex and swallowed his ejaculation, then we kissed and he gave me oral sex. Is there a possibility that his sperm could have traveled from my mouth to his and then into my vagina? Could I be pregnant?…
Read MoreDoes God hate all adulterers and fornicators?
Question: Does God hate all adulterers and fornicators? Are they all destined to burn for all eternity in the fires of Hell? Answer: Your question is misleading in that it doesn’t consider the possibility of sinners leaving their sins behind. We are warned, “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and…
Read MoreI made out with a minor when I was young, how do I gain God’s forgiveness for this?
Question: A long time ago (15 years ago) when I was 20, I went to a party. While there, I made out with a guy who was 17 (I think). We did not have intercourse but did a lot of other things including showering in the nude. I have since changed my life and repented…
Read MoreWhat can we do to maintain intimacy in the bedroom without sinning since we are not married?
Question: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and two months and we’ve been having sex for quite some time. We recently had a talk the other night about whether or not having sex was wrong before marriage, and we were wondering since it’s approved for married couples and we’re not…
Read MoreDid Abraham visit prostitutes?
Question: I have read your article “Why Sex Outside of Marriage is Wrong” to develop my understanding. I value your referring to the Bible for answers and will take all the knowledge I can from this particular piece. However, I would like you to shed some light on Abraham’s use of prostitutes when away from…
Read MoreI don’t think lust necessarily leads to sexual sin
Question: I happened to stumble upon your site (specifically this “Chapter 7: Getting Too Close” section) while surfing Google to find what people really thought about sex in general (i.e., how ignorant some can be about how STDs and pregnancy work). Though I completely agree with “no sex before marriage,” I feel I have to…
Read MoreIs looking at pornography fornication?
Question: When a man is involved in porn on the net, does that qualify as fornication? May a woman put her husband away when this happens? Answer: “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery” (Matthew…
Read MoreIf I sexually sinned when I was single, will I do the same when I am married?
Question: If I sinned by committing fornication when I was single when I am married will the same thing happen to me in my marriage? Answer: Such a question assumes that a person cannot change their behavior. “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived.…
Read MoreSince I had unmarried sex, should I remain single?
Question: I have been a Christian for many years. I had been with a man once after I became a Christian, but I have been living a life of abstinence before and after that brief “living together” period. I have been bugged by sexual desires and fantasies when I am in love with a man,…
Read MoreIs loving each other at the age of 17 right or wrong?
Question: Is loving each other at the age of 17 right or wrong? Answer: Your question is too vague for me to give you a good answer. You have a love for your parents from the time you are a small child, and that is certainly right. People are quite capable of falling in love…
Read MoreIs it wrong to perform masturbation and petting?
Question: I read your sermon about masturbation, but I didn’t find a Scripture that says it’s wrong. Is it wrong to perform masturbation and petting? Is tongue kissing wrong? I am confused because does it mean that masturbation is a sin? Do you have any elders that you could ask? I am a member of…
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https://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/cms/wp-content/uploads/2007/04/Marriages.mp3 by Jeffrey W. Hamilton Text: Genesis 2:18-24 I. A statement in a newspaper article stood out A. Even though the number of marriages ending in divorce has stabilized after many years of rapid rise, the rate of people entering marriage has drastically declined! B. In other words, one of the reasons the divorce rate is not…
Read MoreI had sex out of wedlock, what do I do?
Question: My girlfriend and I had sex outside of wedlock, and I was wondering what I needed to do. I am ashamed of it, and I’m not sure what to do. I have trouble sleeping at night cause I keep thinking about it. I think if I repent of it and change my ways I…
Read MoreMy girlfriend and I mutually masturbated. What is the chance that she is pregnant?
Question: Hi. I am worried that my girlfriend will get pregnant. We regret that we did mutual masturbation and somehow we ended up with her panties off and I ejaculated on her napkin. I am not sure that my sperm was completely absorbed by the napkin or leaked down to her panties. Two minutes later…
Read MoreI’m planning to get married and we are already having sex, so can we continue until marriage?
Question: Well, I am getting married in November of next year. Is it okay, as I am already making love to my husband-to-be and have been since he took my virginity, to continue? Is there a way to make our relationship pure? How do we invite God in our love life, including our sex life,…
Read MoreIf a person commits fornication while engaged, does that affect the later marriage?
Question: My spouse was engaged to a woman for a month and a half. They were sexually active before and after they became engaged. They were not faithful to each other during the engagement and decided to break the engagement. He has since repented for his sin (been baptized, etc.) and is living a godly…
Read MoreWhy can’t I get pregnant with my boyfriend?
Question: I had sex several times with my boyfriend. I feel nauseous and have been throwing up. I took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. I am supposed to have my menstruation in a couple of days and it hasn’t come yet. So what does that mean? Is something wrong with me or…
Read MoreI have had sex without being married, and I’m scared that I will go to hell because of it. What can I do?
Question: I had sex with eight different girls at different times when I was between 15 and 17. I was blind to God. By that I mean I believed that He existed, but just recently I realized, “Wow, I’m doing bad.” I didn’t know what were sins. Then I had sex with a girl that…
Read MoreHow do I get forgiveness for having sex with a prostitute?
Question: Thank you very much for your answer, I am glad to see your mail. I am thankful to you for that. I will give a brief introduction about me: I am basically from a Hindu family but started believing in Christ four years ago. As I started believing in Christ, I have had disagreements…
Read MoreCould I get pregnant if the condom leaked?
Question: I had sex with my boyfriend for about maybe the sixth or seventh time. We used a condom, and when he went to take the condom off some of the sperm was at the bottom; it leaked out during sex (only a very small amount). Could I still get pregnant? What are the chances?…
Read MoreAre you still a virgin after anal sex?
Question: Are you still a virgin if you have anal sex? I am a 14-year-old teenager (and still a virgin). A boy I know told me that he had anal sex with a girl. But not in her vagina and he said it only lasted for a couple of seconds and he stroked about 5…
Read MoreCan you get pregnant from pre-nut?
Question: Can you plan to get pregnant off of pre-nut? When my boyfriend and I have sex, he pulls it out then puts it back in without wiping. He just found out that you could get pregnant off of it, so he`s telling me that I should have been pregnant because of how many times…
Read MoreAm I not getting pregnant because God isn’t ready for me to be a mother yet?
Question: I am a 21-year-old young lady who has been trying to get pregnant for almost two years. I have been involved with the same guy and nothing has happened. I really love kids and would someday love to have my own. So I was wondering are there any comments on why I haven’t conceived…
Read MoreHow do I handle my daughter living with a man?
Question: Right now I am going through a situation with my daughter. She got a divorce a few months ago and she has found a new man. He has teenage children. My daughter has two children 10 and 8; great kids, of course. My daughter is a great kid but making bad decisions. She has…
Read MoreIs reading sexually explicit romance novels wrong?
Question: I really have a great deal of respect for your opinion just based on what I have read on your web site. I would like to get your opinion on how to handle a situation with a couple where I preach if you have time. The husband tells me that his wife spends a…
Read MoreThe Harm of Living Together Without Marriage
by Jeffrey W. Hamilton Text: Psalm 50 I. As Christianity spread through the Gentile world, it faced many challenges A. For thousands of years, the Gentiles gave little thought to God. Oh, they had their gods, but these were little more than extensions of their own desires. No, they lived in a world where men did…
Read MoreCunnilingus is injurious to health!
Question: Cunnilingus is injurious to health! Answer: It would be more proper to state that oral sex, whether done to a woman (cunnilingus) or done to a man (fellatio) can be injurious to health. All acts of sex between unmarried couples carry the risk of transmitting diseases between the partners because it is rare that…
Read MoreHow do I help a young man going down the wrong path?
Question: I do have a question concerning a young man (about 17) who is heading down the wrong path. He is my friend’s brother-in-law who always gets in trouble legally. He does various things, such as smoking, and stealing, and has been sexually involved with a 14-year-old girl recently. This is the second or third…
Read MoreIs living with your fiancee all right if you seriously intend to get married?
Question: If you are living with your fiance due to complications and financial necessity and it’s for a short period of time (6-8 months) and you are engaged and have a wedding date set and are in the process of making wedding arrangements (e.g wedding invitations have been sent); would it still be viewed as…
Read MoreMy girlfriend wants me in her bed, but I know it is wrong. What do I do?
Question: I am troubled by certain things in my life. As a young man, it is a challenge to deal with young women because I am in somewhat of a relationship (although we are not physically active) it is still a struggle. Even though I am not active physically, I am tempted daily. I desire…
Read MoreWhat do I do about a husband that sinned at a bachelor’s party?
Question: What do you do when alcohol and a fully nude strip club at a bachelor party tempted your Christian husband and he gives in to both temptations? Not only was he a visitor at this club, but he and the other three gentlemen had a little personal dance as well. Being the wife of…
Read MoreHow should sexual immorality be addressed with the elderly?
Question: I read many of your very fine Q&A, articles, and sermons on your web site. Your candor is refreshing as well as offering much. We are searching for conclusions on how to address one aspect of the sexual immorality subject and, perhaps, your study of the subject might help us shed some light on…
Read MoreCould my girlfriend get pregnant from what we did last night?
Question: Hey, I was wondering: I had sex with my girlfriend tonight. I was wearing a condom, I cummed, and then pulled out right away, while my penis was still firm. It then went limp, and I took off the condom. I looked at the condom, all my cum was inside of it, and there…
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