My boyfriend texted me to end our engagement on Christmas day

Question: Good day, My ex and I recently broke up. He ended it through text on Christmas day. He said things were not working out, even after I sacrificed to move down by him and live in his rented apartment. He was supposed to move out but said he will in January. I was uncomfortable…

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I really messed up. How do I restore my relationship with my fiance?

Question: Hello, I am 24 years of age. I have been in a very serious relationship for over three years. We have had so many challenging times, but somehow we always pulled through. My boyfriend and I got engaged about a year ago. We are Christians, and he is such a good spiritual leader to…

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Can we be forgiven if we plan to have sex before we marry?

Question: My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months now and have been discussing having sex. We do plan on getting married because we are both loyal, honest and love each other very dearly. However, we both have very strong religious backgrounds and are not sure if we could be forgiven if we…

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Is my fiance in sin by marrying someone else?

Question: My fiancé left me for another woman and got married to her. Is it right for me to have someone and marry? Is he committing sin with the wife he married? Answer: An engagement is an intention to marry, but it is not a marriage. A marriage is formed by a covenant — part…

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Must I wed because I slept with my wife to be?

Question: I want to change churches. I have two churches in mind that I could go to. I don’t know which one to go to. I want to be where the man of God will help bring out what God has put in me. Please pray for me. Also, if I did not wed, is…

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Should I ask my girlfriend to marry me when we tend to argue a lot?

Question: I have a question which you may know a little about. In my relationship with my girlfriend, we tend to argue a lot. She will say something and I will explode or vice versa. This has left me without peace and asking if this relationship is God’s will. I wanted to ask my girlfriend…

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How long should an engagement last?

Question: First, I want to thank you for a beautiful, wonderful site. I’m a young Christian, growing in the Lord. I have a girlfriend. We love each other and I desire to marry young, as soon as possible. We’ve been dating for two months now, but we have known each other for three years. I…

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My boyfriend proposed to me. Are we sinning if we have sex?

Question: My boyfriend proposed to me. I’m not pregnant and I do love him. Does this make me a sinner, if we have sex? Answer: “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge” (Hebrews 13:4). Sex outside of marriage is a sin. A proposal to marry doesn’t…

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Are engagements required before a marriage can take place?

Question: I see the Scripture and proof that sex does not make the marriage and that there is fornication without marriages being made in the act.  However, I was reading the other day and came across a person who said that we are to let the Bible define marriage.  He pointed out that God’s definition in the…

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Is oral sex before marriage ok?

Question: Is oral sex before marriage ok? Answer: When people want to justify a behavior that deep down inside themselves they know they shouldn’t do, they will redefine terms that cast their actions into a better light. I’ve noticed in recent years that people, young people especially, are making the definition of sex more specific…

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