In my younger days, I met this woman and got her pregnant after a prolonged friendship. We were not ready for marriage and we went our separate ways. Later, both of us married to other people. I followed up on our daughter and even got her a job where she met her future husband. Somehow, she ignores me completely and wants nothing to do with me. How do I handle this?

I believe God has plans for all of us and her being born out of wedlock was planned. She is who she is because of me.

Please help.


Just because you contributed the sperm, it doesn't make you a father. It does sound as if you took responsibility for your sin and made sure she grew up to be a responsible adult. As an adult, she makes her own decisions. I don't know why she doesn't want a relationship with you, but it is her choice.

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