Do Unto Others

by Doy Moyer

As you wish that others would do to you, do so to them” (Luke 6:31).

This does not mean:

Do unto others as they have done to you. This is not revenge permission. It is acting contrary to revenge, as you would never wish for someone to take revenge on you.

Do to others what you wish to be done to you, but only when:

  1. you like them,
  2. they are not your enemies,
  3. they agree with you religiously or politically.

The “golden rule” does not apply only sporadically based on our likes, dislikes, or agreements with others. Following Christ entails sacrificial service, self-denial, and treating others with kindness, mercy, and forgiveness. This does not give passes to sin. It does, however, follow Christ’s grace, give the benefit of any doubt, and seek the best on behalf of all.

Why? Because every human is made in God’s image. Even in the way we speak of others, we demonstrate our commitment to the image of God in others: “With it (the tongue) we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so” (James 3:9-10).
Treat others, then, as you would have them treat you. Speak of others as you would have them speak of you. Be merciful, as you would have others be toward you.

In other words, love your neighbor as yourself.