Four Challenges of Evangelism
by Andy Cantrell
There are countless reasons why Christians struggle with evangelism, but I believe the following four categories cover most, if not all, of those reasons. They are Care, Consciousness, Courage, and Craft. Most of the excuses we are willing to vocalize come from the last three areas. We are willing to admit we need to pay better attention (Consciousness) and are often scared to speak up (Courage), and we don’t know how, what, or when to say the things we should (Craft). But it is rare to hear someone vocalize the most important (and most common) reason we don’t share His things like we should: Care.
Care
Here is the truth about me: I often don’t care enough about what God is doing in the universe to get involved in His business. I also often haven’t cared that the most important thing God is doing in the universe involves the souls of the people walking by me daily—souls that ”God so loved” that ”He gave His only begotten Son” so that they would ”not perish, but have eternal life.”
Can we please be honest about this? We can make all the excuses we want about why so many of us remain reticent about our Lord, but what truly is the source of our lack of consciousness, our missing courage, and our lazy or haphazard craft if we do not care? Everything follows this! It is my belief that if we care enough about God and those made in God’s image, we will become more aware of opportunities, find the boldness to speak or serve, and diligently discipline ourselves toward saying things in such a way that it will ”give grace to those who hear.” Here are a couple of thoughts about how to develop greater care. Sacrifice and service come from realizing God’s mercy toward me (Romans 12:1-2). ”We love, because He first loved us” (I John 4:19). I must think more intensely about God’s love and mercy offered me. I must thank Him more frequently for His loving kindness. I must enthusiastically engage my heart and mind in the prescribed disciplines of remembering Jesus, thankful prayer, noble-minded listening to God’s Word, probing meditation, and all the other instructions God designed to train me to love Him and those He loves! I understand these are activities we participate in frequently. The problem is that many of us, somewhere along this journey, forgot that going through the motions was designed by God to stir our emotions.
Consciousness
Jesus had to train His disciples to be conscious of opportunities. ”The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few” (Matthew 10:37) surely would have been as uncommon a viewpoint then as it is now. When the Lord spoke to Paul that night in Corinth and revealed, ”I have many people in this city” (Acts 18:10), it surely would have been as shocking to him as it is to us.
The key to both these revelations is that the disciples who heard these words must care enough about God’s ”harvest” and His ”people” to become the ”workers” and ”go on speaking.” Recognizing that every heart is soil (Matthew 13) and that every aspect of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5) contains the seeds of truth that can be planted in the lives of those around us is a necessary realization. Once realized and meditated on, every person, interaction, word, and deed becomes an opportunity for us. I find it interesting that when Paul encouraged the Colossians to "Conduct yourself with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity” (Colossians 4:5), he began the thought in Colossians 4:2 by reminding them to pray, keep alert, and be thankful! So often, I forget to devote myself to prayer concerning my awareness and opportunities. For what it’s worth, I stopped just now while writing this to pray for you concerning this. Please pray for me and God’s people everywhere, that our eyes be opened and that the Lord send forth workers.
Courage
Most of the things I fear concerning evangelism are selfish and embarrassing to admit. I’m afraid I will no longer be liked, or thought of as unkind, or excluded from activities or conversations, or embarrass myself, or stick my foot in my mouth, or some other thing that is only about me and my comfort.
I feel much better about confessing the other things I am afraid of because they genuinely result from my concern for the other person. I worry I will push them away, ruin an opportunity, say something wrong, or not actually help them in some way. Some of these fears are valid, but really only if I fail to get one of two things right. We are to be ”speaking the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15). If I speak the truth but am not motivated by love, it will do no good for me and could potentially hurt the one I seek to help. If I love but fail to speak the truth, it does no good for them. This pursuit is so freeing to me. I find great courage in this! Just think of the incredible implication: as long as I love them and speak what I know to be true, God is pleased, they can be helped, and I have nothing to fear! Notice how Scripture gives us the courage to speak up. Jesus told a man who knew very little to "report what great things the Lord has done for you, and how He had mercy on you” (Mark 5:19). God does not expect or need us to speak of things we don’t know! We need not, and should not, speculate or add to what God has done or said! He can accomplish His purposes with the truth He has already taught me, even if I have so much more to learn. In Acts 4:20, this same principle is taught. Peter and John said, ”We cannot stop speaking about what we have seen and heard.” How encouraging! They were not expected to speak of things they hadn’t seen or heard, nor are we. Look closer at your fears. If you have heard enough truth to gain faith, then what you have heard is enough to help another find faith. As long as we are willing to speak only what we know to be true and refrain from speaking of things we don’t know, we have nothing to fear. More importantly, God’s truth is powerful enough to help another, even if we deem it small or incomplete.
Craft
God is a craftsman. Children of God should imitate their Father. Paul wrote in Colossians 4:6, ”Let your speech always be with grace, as though seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should respond to each person.” Some eaters just stuff their faces; others take the time to collect, measure, and season their meals to make them enjoyable.
When I was younger, I did everything in haste. As I matured, I saw the value in taking my time to prepare and do things with much more thoughtfulness. Why would we not do this when speaking with others or serving them on behalf of our Lord? Perhaps it’s because we are lazy. Perhaps we don’t want to think deeply about our shortcomings to know what another might need. Perhaps we just don’t care enough. I have started practicing some things lately that have helped me communicate more clearly, kindly, and effectively. It actually is something I do after encounters, not before. I try to replay the conversation in my mind and honestly critique what I said, how I listened, and what I could have done better. I have also begun to be a more serious student of how Jesus spoke in various situations to different kinds of people. I sure have a lot to learn. But I finally care. I hope you do, too.