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We’ve been living together for five years and don’t need a paper to prove our love, but I want to make it right with God. What should I do?
Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have lived together for 5. We are not ready for marriage. He and I think we don’t need a piece of paper to prove our love, but I want to make it right with God. Is there a prayer that a pastor…
Read MoreShould we refuse to study with someone who is in an adulterous marriage?
Question: My question is this: When studying with someone who is not in the Lord and they have remarried and their first marriage was ended and not for fornication or death; is it right to refuse that person study unless they leave their present husband since their first marriage wasn’t for biblical reasons? Or, are…
Read MoreHow do I get my parents to see that they are enabling my sister to be a drug user?
Question: This question is about addiction and enabling and how it relates to the Bible. My sister got pregnant in high school and gave birth to my niece when she was 17 years old. My parents raised the child and formally adopted her. So, legally my niece became my sister. My parents spoiled her growing…
Read MoreI appreciate your web site
Question: I just wanted to let you know I appreciate your web site. I was reading in Isaiah 35 where the prophecy was concerning the land of Edom and wondered where present-day Edom is. I typed in Edom on bing.com and chose your web site. It was very easy to read and understand and included…
Read MoreHow do you know that Ham was the youngest son?
Question: How do you know that Ham was the youngest son? Answer: “So Noah awoke from his wine, and knew what his younger son had done to him” (Genesis 9:24). The word “younger,” or “youngest,” depending on your translation, comes from the Hebrew word qatan. It is an adjective which can be translated as “small,”…
Read MoreIs it wrong for a lonely single man to use the services of a prostitute?
Question: I am 29 years old, single, no kids, and most of the time lonely. I live in an environment surrounded by peer pressure. This is not a perfect world. Even media and entertainment promotes sex. The people around me talk about sex often. When I’m lonely, and my budget allows, I have sex with…
Read MoreWhy create humans if God knew most would live sinfully?
Question: So, God controls everything that will ultimately happen, but not the choices we make in order to get to that final event, correct? I’m almost positive that that’s what all of those articles were pointing to. So then, does that mean that He meant for humans to ultimately be sentenced to live in a world of…
Read MoreDoes the Bible say that Barabbas was cursed to walk the earth and never die?
Question: The Bible states that the curse of Barabbas was to walk the earth and never die. Where is he today? Answer: I’m always amazed at the things people accept as truth without ever checking their sources. Barabbas is mentioned in Matthew 27:16-26; Mark 15:7-15; Luke 23:16-19; and John 18:39-40. He was a man in…
Read MoreDo you know anything concerning the eastern gate in reference to heaven?
Question: Do you have any information concerning “the eastern gate” with reference to heaven? The reason I ask is that a couple of years ago I heard a preacher say as he was closing out a gospel meeting, “If I don’t see you before I’ll meet you at the eastern gate.” I wonder if it…
Read MoreHow do I help my aunt who has been in a long abusive relationship?
Question: My aunt has been married for a very long time and has been verbally and emotionally abused for the majority of her marriage. She has one daughter who also was verbally and emotionally abused by her father growing up. My uncle has cheated on my aunt numerous times that we know of. Still, my…
Read MoreDoes sin require a public confession before a congregation?
Question: It is with great difficulty that I find myself writing to you with this question. I have been married for about several months now. Shortly before the wedding, we made a grievous error and fell into sexual sins. A child was conceived from this sin. We are overjoyed over the child but do admit…
Read MoreWhat evidence is there that the Catholic church is not the one true church?
Question: I am a Catholic. What evidence is there from the Scriptures that the Catholic Church is not the one true Church to which all Christians belong? Answer: Since the Roman Catholic church is a large organization, your question is a broad one. What needs to be done is to compare current Catholic teachings and…
Read MoreWhen I see someone sinning, is it wrong not to say anything?
Question: After reading Leviticus 19:17, which commands us to rebuke our neighbor, I was surprised and a little worried. You see, sometimes I am afraid that, if I rebuke someone, they will either mock me or think of me as sanctimonious and thus be reluctant to befriend me or be eager to point out my…
Read MoreWhere does the Bible explain why Jesus’ bones were not broken?
Question: Can you please tell me where the scriptures are that explain about the death of Jesus. Specifically about His bones not being broken. I know that the Bible refers to His “broken” body. But I seem to remember in the Old Testament that it prophesied about no bones would be broken in Christ’s body.…
Read MoreWhat is your church like?
Question: How do you have such a great understanding of the Bible? I would love to understand and live whole-heartily according to the Bible. This is what I have been in search of. I believe in Jesus Christ, I’ve accepted him as my personal savior, was baptized as an infant, but would like to be…
Read MoreShould baptisms be only done in streams and not in pools?
Question: I was questioned about baptizing in a pool as opposed to baptizing in streams or other water sources. I did not know what Scripture to use to affirm pool baptism. Can you help? Answer: The word “baptize” means to immerse. The medium into which believers are baptized is water. “Can anyone forbid water, that these…
Read MoreShould I tell my daughters about the abuse I suffered in the church they attend?
Question: I was in a church for 12 years. I left because I was abused there. My two daughters are still there. I am afraid for them. I do not want them trained in this way. Should I tell them the truth? Answer: In some ways, it is hard for me to answer because the…
Read MoreAre you Mormon? What are your beliefs?
Question: I happened to stumble upon your church when I googled “the most accurate version of the Bible.” I have been currently attended a Baptist church, which solely uses the King James Version. I am really in search of the truth on my Christian journey. I am not one who believes in denomination over the…
Read MoreShould a Bible class teacher yield the floor when someone else has a revelation?
Question: In I Corinthians 14:29, it talks about prophets speaking. Does the word “prophet” in this context mean Bible teachers in the church? If verse 29 talks about teachers, does verse 30 mean that at any point teachers in a Bible class could be interrupted, and he will be silent to enable the other person…
Read MoreIs it wrong to have pride in your work?
Question: I have a question about pride. If you are proud of being something of having something, but you don’t talk about it or brag about it, is it still bad if you feel like you have something that is better than everyone else? Answer: Pride is a dangerous emotion, which can easily get out…
Read MoreIs it proper to have rituals, such as masses, for those who died?
Question: I have a handful of questions about the dead. Is it okay to have masses for the dead? My uncle just past away a few days ago and as relatives, we have to attend the funeral wake for several days. What does the Bible say about people who have passed on along with the…
Read MoreI’m still confused as to what love is. Is it a feeling, an action, or both?
Question: I was reading over the email you sent me a while back and I understand what love is but at the same time, I don’t. I know what is but I feel it’s hard to explain. Love is like faith, it isn’t an action but without action, it is basically dead. I can show someone…
Read MoreI’m obsessing over my sinful thoughts. What can I do?
Question: Hello. I am a member of the church of Christ and have been for a while now. However I have been plagued by many tormenting, fearful, and bad thoughts on a daily basis. I have talked to many doctors, psychiatrists and church counselors who chalk it up to anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder, which causes…
Read MoreHow do I help a male escort out of his sinful lifestyle?
Question: I have a friend who is a male escort. He had an alcoholic father and his sick mother took the kids and left. While sexually active, he left home at 18 to pursue doing adult films. He stopped but started escorting to make a living. He is now 20 and said he doesn’t mind…
Read MoreHow do I tell my children that the TV “miracles” are fake without sounding like I’m condemning their mother who believes in them?
Question: My wife is involved with a charismatic group and subsequently, God told her to divorce me. During that time I tried very hard to accept her “religion.” The talking in tongues, putting oil on the windows to keep out evil spirits, being accused of witchcraft, spiritual and emotional abuse and taking the entire blame…
Read MoreDoes God still raise people from the dead?
Question: A friend of mine seems to think that it is possible for someone to raise from the dead now. I thought that Jesus was the last person to do that. He seems to think that I am underestimating God’s power. I believe that God can do anything, but I don’t think He will raise…
Read MoreThank you for the article
Question: I just read the scripture in I Timothy about Hymenaeus and Alexander. When I googled to search for more clarity I found this link: Hymenaeus and Alexander. Thanks for the clear explanation! It blessed me! Answer: Happy to be of service.
Read MoreAm I loving God and giving Him glory?
Question: A few days ago, I was reading I Corinthians 10:31, the passage about “do all to the glory of God.” Although I’m still not 100% clear on the exact meaning, the passage really made me think hard about myself in relation to God. The entire time I have been a Christian (or so I…
Read MoreWhat does it mean to know to do good, but not do it, it is sin?
Question: What does it mean in James 4:17, that “he that knoweth to do good, but doeth it not, to him it is sin”? I’ve heard it explained in two ways. One, that he knows how to live a moral life but neglects to do so sins. But this seems like a tautology to me. …
Read MoreIf God cares for us, why is there suffering?
Question: I was reading a book and stumbled upon the following quote: “I am your Creator. You were in my care even before you were born.” (Isaiah 44:2a, Contemporary English Version) I thought about this. It brings a couple of questions. If the above quote is true, then all the babies and everyone born into this…
Read MoreIt’s mean to say homosexuality is a sin!
Question: Hello, I am a male thirteen-year-old Christian – more specifically, Roman Catholic. I was reading chapter 12, “Other Sexual Perversions,” and I noticed how you said that all homosexuals would be punished with death. You also used the example of Leviticus 18:22. But I would like to point out that Leviticus also says that…
Read MoreDoesn’t the Lord require Christians to marry Christians?
Question: You said in “What does a woman do when the Christian men around seem more interested in non-Christian women?” “While being married to a non-Christian often makes it more difficult for a Christian woman to remain faithful, there is no requirement that Christians — male or female — must only marry a Christian.” But…
Read MoreBecause I’m committing adultery, does that mean I can’t go to heaven?
Question: I was bought up to go to Sunday school every Sunday at a Free Evangelical Church. I don’t what that stands for, but I got lost in life with God and Jesus. When I was young I had a friend who was a Jehovah’s Witness and we were told we couldn’t play together. We…
Read MoreAre you saying that Roman Catholicism is not legitimate?
Question: In one of your articles, you state: “But I would like you to note that the core of the argument is that the doctrines of the Bible could be modified to suit local customs — a long-standing Roman Catholic practice.” My entire family is Roman Catholic and I was raised in the Catholic church as well. Currently, I…
Read MoreWas Cain fathered by Satan?
Question: I was told by a Sunday school teacher that Cain was fathered by Satan. I cannot find this in the Bible. Can you help me with the answer? Answer: “Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, and said, “I have acquired a man from the LORD”” (Genesis 4:1). For…
Read MoreShouldn’t you balance your rebukes regarding fornication with love?
Question: I was just reading one of your answers to a question relating to a couple who were attempting intercourse. While the Bible is very clear about what is moral and right concerning intercourse, I found the response lacking some balance in support and love. The word of God is a two-edged sword so is…
Read MoreWhat about people who spend their whole life following the wrong religion in ignorance?
Question: People are born into other religions and live their entire lives thinking that they are following the correct religion. They live life doing good deeds but follow their own religion. How does God view these people? Thank you for the web site and the learning that it provides to people such as myself that…
Read MoreWhen a child is raised to be violent, who is responsible, the parent or the child?
Question: I recently stumbled upon your web site and enjoy it very much. I have a question of my own though that hasn’t been answered fully for quite some time now. There are many children who are brought up into violent families such that they learn to imitate their parents and as adults follow a…
Read MoreWas it wrong to leave a marriage when my ex-husband had tried to kill my son and me?
Question: Was I wrong to leave the marriage? My ex-husband tried to kill my son and me. He told me that he was a baptized Christian. Then he said he was Catholic. After that, he said he did not believe in God at all and cursed His name many times. I have since remarried, but…
Read MoreShould we ask for signs like Gideon did?
Question: Does Scripture condemn Gideon for questioning God with the fleece? Does Scripture command us not to do as he did? I know we are to use Scripture, prayer, and the counsel of godly people. If we are still unsure, are we forbidden to do as Gideon did? Answer: Often people see what they want…
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