Standing for the Truth Without Being Obnoxious

by David Gibson

Firm but Kind

God expects Christians to take a firm stand on morals and doctrine. But how can we do this without unnecessarily closing doors?

“The Lord’s bond-servant must not be quarrelsome, but be kind to all, able to teach, patient when wronged, with gentleness correcting those who are in opposition, if perhaps God may grant them repentance leading to the knowledge of the truth ...” (II Timothy 2:24-25).

Kindness, patience, gentleness, and humility keep us from coming across as abrasive, arrogant, holier-than-thou know-it-alls.

A Lifestyle that Changes Minds

People quickly notice whether we practice what we preach (I Timothy 6:1; Titus 2:9-10; I Peter 2:15; 3:1-2, 15-16).

Also, good deeds make the truth attractive (Matthew 5:16; I Peter 2:12). Even unbelievers can’t help but be impressed when they see believers actively involved in Christ-like deeds of compassionate service to those in need.

With this approach, we may win a soul for Christ!

And won’t that make it all worthwhile?