I am a music minister, called preacher and leader. I currently serve with the church of the Nazarene. I am shocked by the truth you revealed. I have been looking for this, but I really need help to understand it more. I have been feeling deeply uncomfortable with some things in this denomination, and I have even attempted to leave at one point.
Please help me understand more. I pray that you reply to my request soon.
Without knowing what topics you wish to look more deeply into, your request is too broad to answer in a simple note. I would suggest starting by looking at the material on this website that deals with the Church of the Nazarene. And then to begin looking into what the church ought to be like.
I would especially suggest reading: "We Are Simply Christians Without Being Members of Any Denomination, You Can be Too!"
If you would like to find a preacher in your area to talk to, let me know what town you live near.