Church Shoppers

by Chadwick Brewer

“Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor. Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord” (Romans 12:10-11).

Some areas in the world are blessed with multiple congregations in close proximity. What a blessing it is to have so many Christians in one area. If only we all could enjoy such a gift.

There can be a temptation—though it is not exclusive to areas with many congregations, it does seem more common in these places—to find a church that suits them. In this mindset, people begin to believe that the congregation should cater to their preferences and meet their personal needs, rather than focusing on serving and bearing with others. With this mentality, people often become “church shoppers,” seeking the perfect church.

The fundamental problem is that we become “church critics” rather than worshipers and students. The focus shifts from bearing burdens, showing honor, and practicing brotherly affection to complaining about noisy children, off-key singers, and long-winded speakers. The purpose of the congregation is abandoned in a whirlwind of self-service.

So don't make it about you when you go to church on Sunday. Sing the hymns to praise God and edify others. Pray from the heart so that God hears your prayers, not man. Listen to the teacher to learn. Commune to remember. And praise God for His goodness.