What prompted you to start your question and answer section?

Answer:

The question and answer section began when I first put La Vista's website together. I didn't realize just how popular it would become. At this moment in time, we have 4,500 people visiting the website each day from all around the world. The most popular sections are the pictures from old children's Bible storybooks, the material on growing up for teenagers, and the question and answer section.

Each of us has different talents, and I've always enjoyed the challenge of answering questions as clearly as possible. When I started, I committed myself to answering every question I could, no matter how embarrassing or odd. At first, there were only a few questions I had to reject, mostly because they were nothing but long strings of profanity. I even answered questions that were clearly meant to irritate me, such as "How do I have sex on my wedding night?" Another reason I did the questions and answers is that I study better when I have a purpose. The questions get me thinking about subjects I wouldn't have thought about and force me to consider ways of persuading people to see the reasonableness of God's teachings. They are making me a better preacher and benefiting the congregation.

One thing that I knew is that if one person had a question, there would likely be thousands of other people with the same question searching for an answer. I treat questions from teenagers and young adults particularly seriously. There are so many young people without guidance, and if they are reaching out for an answer, then they deserve the best I can give. I also know that, especially for young people, blunt answers are better received than indirect answers. Vague or indirect answers, even when accurate, are seen as avoidance of the truth. What surprised me were the times I had to come down hard on someone because of the sins they were justifying. I frequently sent out blunt answers, thinking, "They'll never talk to me again." Instead, I, more often than not, got appreciative responses. I've come to realize that often people know they are in the wrong, they just needed someone to help them get it clear in their mind as to why it is wrong.

I still continue the practice of answering almost every question I receive. At the moment, I'm running about 20 to 30 questions per week. Some only require pointing to a previously answered question, and those I don't often post. Some just want to push their doctrines and really don't contain any questions. I don't post those because I'm not interested in giving them a platform for false teaching. There are also some that I'm quite certain are fakes about made-up situations. I found, to my horror, that there are people who get thrills out of describing made-up stories about punishing children. I've finally had enough of it, and I don't respond to these made-up scenarios anymore.

I'm really glad when someone writes to say that the answers were helpful. I do appreciate the encouragement. And when someone tells me that they stopped sinning because they understood that God's way is better, well, that is the highlight of my week.