Disciplining Children

by Jeffrey W. Hamilton I.         The world in its wisdom comes up with many theories about how children ought to be raised.             A.        In the 1960s a psychologist named Benjamin Spock became famous with a book proposing that children should not be spanked                         1.         He argued that other, non-physical methods were just as effective                         2.         Spanking would damage a…

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How will male virtues be passed on without spanking?

Question: I am a Swedish man living in Denmark, not a Christian or religious at all, but I am brought up in a tradition where spanking and what my father called “male virtues” was normal. This was in the ’60s and beginning of the ’70s. I do agree that for boys it is a necessary…

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What to do when parents disagree about spanking?

Question: Whenever I switch one of the kids my wife has a fit. She begs me to use a different punishment. Her crying and shouting make it very difficult to administer a proper whipping to the youngster. Afterward, she is furious with me and may even give me the silent treatment for a few days.…

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Should I Beat My Child?

Donald P. Ames Guardian of Truth XXXI: 3, pp. 75, 87 February 5, 1987 Before you answer the above question, may I, first of all, ask if you really understood it? Webster defines “beat” all the way from “spank” to “flogging.” The Bible also uses it in a similar fashion. And, unfortunately, many people apply it…

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How do we start biblical discipline when our children are already older?

Question: I have a question in relation to child discipline. I have a 13-year-old son and an 8-year-old son. My wife and I realized of late the problems we caused by following non-biblical consequences with our boys. My oldest son has been lying and my youngest has problems with obedience. I read your parenting articles and was…

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