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		<title>Was helping the tribe of Benjamin find wives wrong?</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Question: I just finished the Book of Judges, and I have a question: Was helping Benjamin by sending wives to the remaining men wrong? Answer: During the days of the Judges, the tribe of Benjamin allowed homosexuality to exist within their borders. This upset the rest of Israel so greatly that they attacked Benjamin and&#8230;]]></description>
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<p>I just finished the Book of Judges, and I have a question: Was helping Benjamin by sending wives to the remaining men wrong?</p>
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	<h2>Answer:</h2>
<p>During the days of the Judges, the tribe of Benjamin allowed homosexuality to exist within their borders. This upset the rest of Israel so greatly that they attacked Benjamin and nearly wiped out the tribe. When they were done, they realized only 600 men remained—no women or children. Worse, they had vowed not to give their sons and daughters to marry anyone from Benjamin (Judges 21:1). Thus, the tribe stood to die out.</p>
<p>Realizing that one group hadn't been present when the vow was made, they wiped out Jabesh-Gilead, sparing only the virgin women (Judges 21:8-12). They did this as punishment for Jabesh-Gilead not responding to the call to arms (Judges 21:5). They ended up with 400 women to be wives, but they were still 200 short. They decided to let the men without wives "steal" women from a festival where virgin women gathered and pretend that they didn't notice. Thus they could claim they didn't give the men wives since they "took" the women.</p>
<blockquote><p>"<em>Therefore they instructed the children of Benjamin, saying, 'Go, lie in wait in the vineyards, and watch; and just when the daughters of Shiloh come out to perform their dances, then come out from the vineyards, and every man catch a wife for himself from the daughters of Shiloh; then go to the land of Benjamin. Then it shall be, when their fathers or their brothers come to us to complain, that we will say to them, "Be kind to them for our sakes, because we did not take a wife for any of them in the war; for it is not as though you have given the women to them at this time, making yourselves guilty of your oath."' And the children of Benjamin did so; they took enough wives for their number from those who danced, whom they caught. Then they went and returned to their inheritance, and they rebuilt the cities and dwelt in them</em>" (Judges 21:20-23).</p></blockquote>
<p>If a mistake was made, it was in making the rash vow not to allow anyone from Benjamin to marry people from the other tribes. At the time the vow was made, I don't think the Israelites thought about the consequences of wiping out one of Israel's tribes. Also, notice that God was never consulted about what to do.</p>
<p>Once they realized that they had made a major blunder, the people sought out ways to prevent the loss of Benjamin without breaking their vows. They found two ways:</p>
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<li>In punishing the group that did not respond to the call to arms, they modified it to allow the virgin women to remain alive.</li>
<li><span style="box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">They decided that while they could not <strong>give</strong> their daughters to the survivors, if the daughters were <strong>taken</strong> and they turned a blind eye to it, they would still have kept their oaths.</span></li>
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<p>All of this resulted from people doing what they felt was right. "<em>In those days there was no king in Israel; everyone did what was right in his own eyes</em>" (Judges 21:25). The entire Book of Judges documents the progressive moral decay of Israel. By the end, even when people tried to do what was right, they still messed things up.</p>
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		<title>Integrity</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeffrey Hamilton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2026 20:09:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[by Zeke Flores "If a man makes a vow to Yahweh ... he shall not violate his word; he shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth" (Numbers 30:2). Numbers 30 emphasizes integrity. When someone made a vow, God expected them to keep it. Their words mattered. Their commitments reflected their character. We&#8230;]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>"<em>If a man makes a vow to Yahweh ... he shall not violate his word; he shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth</em>" (Numbers 30:2).</p></blockquote>
<p>Numbers 30 emphasizes integrity. When someone made a vow, God expected them to keep it. Their words mattered. Their commitments reflected their character.</p>
<p>We live in a world where promises are often broken. Commitments are treated lightly. But God calls us to be people of integrity. Our words should be trustworthy. Our commitments should be steady.</p>
<p>This doesn’t mean we need to make big vows; it means we should be faithful in the small things. Following through on what we say. Being honest. Keeping our word even when it’s inconvenient.</p>
<p>Integrity builds trust. It honors God. It strengthens relationships.</p>
<p>Ask God to help you be faithful in your words and actions today.</p>
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		<title>For My Sake</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeffrey Hamilton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2026 20:02:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[by David Gibson Three of Jesus’ Promises “Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven . . .” (Matthew 5:11-12). “He that findeth his life shall lose it:&#8230;]]></description>
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	<p style="text-align: right;">by David Gibson</p>
<h2>Three of Jesus’ Promises</h2>
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<li>“<em>Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and say all manner of evil against you falsely, <strong>for my sake</strong>. Rejoice and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven</em> . . .” (Matthew 5:11-12).</li>
<li>“<em>He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life <strong>for my sake</strong> shall find it</em>” (Matthew 10:39).</li>
<li>“<em>There is no one that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, <strong>for my sake</strong>, and the gospel’s, but he shall receive a hundredfold now in this time, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life</em>” (Mark 10:29-30).</li>
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<h2>Weighing Hardships Against His Promises</h2>
<p>In each case Jesus speaks of suffering for His sake, but in each case He also guarantees abundant compensation. For the reviling, reward. For the losing, finding. For the leaving, receiving. His faithful promises more than outweigh the pain (Romans 8:18; II Corinthians 4:16-18). Doesn’t this make the suffering for His sake well worth it?</p>
<p>By remembering Jesus’ assurance, we can endure losses for His sake because we know He will take note and bless.</p>
<p>Of course, it really takes faith to believe this.</p>
<p>But He promised, didn’t He?</p>
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		<title>Are thoughts of promises binding?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeffrey Hamilton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2026 20:24:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Question: Good morning! I have a question regarding OCD and false promises to God. I have thoughts pop up (even intentionally about things I don't actually want to swear, I will do, like giving up on things) with a sentence like "If I ever use it" or "If I ever read about it again" with&#8230;]]></description>
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<p>Good morning!</p>
<p>I have a question regarding OCD and false promises to God.</p>
<p>I have thoughts pop up (even intentionally about things I don't actually want to swear, I will do, like giving up on things) with a sentence like "If I ever use it" or "If I ever read about it again" with the consequence God knows (that He may not answer my prayers again if I break it). Today I deliberately had these thoughts, even though deep in my heart I don't want to swear such things. like if I ever pray in my mother tongue, or in English, or if I ever read about a topic I am interested in, or if I wear a specific fashion item I like. I have to mention they are mostly written mental imagery (not out loud) and in some cases, they were intentional just to get it done with for a specific number of times or to cover other things after it (like if I "swore" on something, let's do on this one too), only then to sometimes continue with a phrase that neutralizes the meaning of it (like "I don't want to swear", "you, say?" or a negative pronoun).</p>
<p>Last weekend, I made an actual, genuine promise out loud that I will never give up on anything I love unless I change my preferences.</p>
<p>Are the thoughts true promises to God, even if they are "half" intentional, and do I have to keep them and give up on those languages and hobbies? Can someone promise something on pain of God never receiving their prayers again?</p>
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<p>Like many people who suffer from OCD, you are trying to minimize your perceived risks by making promises. The fact that Jesus clearly states that Christians are to avoid vows doesn't occur to you. "<em>But I say to you, <strong>make no oath at all</strong>, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is the footstool of His feet, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. Nor shall you make an oath by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. But let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no'; anything beyond these is of evil</em>" (Matthew 5:34-37). Promises don't change whether you can or cannot do something. In reality, they are just empty assertions.</p>
<p>A second mistake you are making is thinking that God is more likely to look favorably on you if you give something up. "<em>If you have died with Christ to the elementary principles of the world, why, as if you were living in the world, do you submit yourself to decrees, such as, 'Do not handle, do not taste, do not touch!' (which all refer to things destined to perish with use) --in accordance with the commandments and teachings of men? These are matters which have, to be sure, the appearance of wisdom in self-made religion and self-abasement and severe treatment of the body, but are of no value against fleshly indulgence</em>" (Colossians 2:20-23). These sacrifices that you are making up don't change anything. They have no value. They don't even offer you comfort since, being man-made, they are frequently broken.</p>
<p>Finally, these promises are telling God what to do. Since when does the creation tell the Creator how He is to act? Moses tried that once and was reprimanded for it. "<em>Then Moses returned to the LORD, and said, 'Alas, this people has committed a great sin, and they have made a god of gold for themselves. But now, if You will, forgive their sin--and if not, please blot me out from Your book which You have written!' The LORD said to Moses, 'Whoever has sinned against Me, I will blot him out of My book'</em>" (Exodus 32:31-33). It wasn't up to Moses to decide whether he should be in God's book. It isn't up to you to decide whether God should punish you.</p>
<p>You are so focused on whether God is going to hold you to things that you made up in your head that you've lost sight of obeying what God has said. Get back to the basics. You know where you stand with God by your obedience to His commands (I John 2:3-6). You don't need to offer "extras" of your own making to impress God, because they will never impress Him.</p>
<p>Yes, you are being plagued by pop-up thoughts and impulses to do something more to make you feel more secure. Ignore them.</p>
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	<h2>Response:</h2>
<p>Good morning! Thank you for your answer. Your words are very comforting and of great help.</p>
<p>I would like to add some points. I don't actually want to make those promises; they are compulsions and urges I owe to the OCD. They involve something I don't want to do in my life.<br />
As for telling God what to do, you are perfectly right. God alone is Lord and decides what to do. It is in His will that we live. I just worried that I might make obsessive vows that involve God rejecting me ever again in case I don't follow through.</p>
<p>Thank you very much again, and have a beautiful weekend! God bless!</p>
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		<title>Swearing Not at All — Understanding Jesus’ Prohibition in Light of the Whole Counsel of God</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2026 03:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[by Becky René Few biblical subjects appear, at first glance, as straightforward as the prohibition against swearing found in the words of Jesus and James. “Swear not at all” seems plain, uncompromising, and universal. For this reason, some conclude that any oath-taking in any circumstance—including legal oaths required by civil authorities—is forbidden to the Christian.&#8230;]]></description>
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	<p style="text-align: right;">by Becky René</p>
<p>Few biblical subjects appear, at first glance, as straightforward as the prohibition against swearing found in the words of Jesus and James. “Swear not at all” seems plain, uncompromising, and universal. For this reason, some conclude that any oath-taking in any circumstance—including legal oaths required by civil authorities—is forbidden to the Christian. This position, though sincerely held, overlooks the broader context of Scripture, the meaning of swearing in the first-century Jewish setting, and the inspired examples that unquestionably demonstrate that not all oaths are sinful. When Scripture is read with Scripture, and all relevant material is allowed to speak with equal authority, a far richer—and far more consistent—picture emerges.</p>
<p>This article aims to examine the prohibition in depth, with clarity and fairness. It will give full weight to the words of Jesus in Matthew 5 and the instruction of James in James 5, without weakening their force. At the same time, it will consider the inspired examples of God, Christ, and the apostles, along with the Old Testament foundation upon which the New Testament writers build. The goal is not to soften the command but to understand it—accurately, reverently, and in a way that harmonises with the whole counsel of God.</p>
<h2>The Apparent Simplicity of “Swear Not at All”</h2>
<p>Jesus’ statement in Matthew five sounds absolute: “<em>But I say unto you, Swear not at all</em>.” Many have therefore argued that the words leave no room for any type of oath under any circumstance. The statement indeed carries dramatic force, and Jesus intended it to do so. However, the Sermon on the Mount frequently employs expressions that, if isolated from their context and from the rest of Scripture, would demand absolute application where Jesus clearly did not intend absolute literalism. “<em>Resist not evil</em>” (Matthew 5:39) would forbid any form of self-defence or lawful resistance to wrongdoing, yet Jesus Himself resisted the unlawful blow of the officer (John 18:22–23), and Paul appealed to lawful protections under Roman law (Acts 22:25; Acts 25:11). “<em>Give to him that asketh thee</em>” (Matthew 5:42) would require indiscriminate giving even when such giving would promote wrongdoing, contradicting the principle of stewardship taught throughout Scripture.</p>
<p>In each of these cases, Jesus speaks in deliberately forceful terms to expose a wrong attitude or practice and to direct His disciples to a higher righteousness. He does not abolish common sense, lawful justice, or moral responsibility. Understanding this pattern prepares us to examine “<em>Swear not at all</em>” in its proper interpretive setting.</p>
<h2>The Jewish Background of Oath-Taking</h2>
<p>In Jesus’ day, the Jews had developed an intricate system of oath-making that allowed them to use certain oaths as binding and others as non-binding, depending on how God’s name was invoked—or carefully avoided. The Mishnah preserves examples of this legalistic system: swearing by the temple might not be binding, but swearing by the temple's gold would be; swearing by the altar might be a lesser oath, but swearing by the sacrifice upon it carried greater weight. It was a maze of technical distinctions designed less to promote honesty and more to create loopholes. Jesus directly exposes this in Matthew chapter twenty-three, rebuking the scribes and Pharisees for their artificial distinctions in swearing by the temple, the altar, and heaven itself.</p>
<p>When Jesus says in Matthew 5, “<em>swear not at all</em>,” He is addressing this corrupt system in which oaths were commonly used to manipulate truth rather than to confirm it. His command is not a rejection of all oath-taking but a rejection of the dishonest, loophole-driven abuse of oaths that characterised Jewish casuistry. His solution is breathtakingly simple: Let your yes mean yes and your no mean no. Do not rely on layers of oath-formulae to give weight to your words. A disciple of Christ is to be a person of integrity whose everyday speech is as trustworthy as a formal oath.</p>
<h2>James’ Reinforcement of Jesus’ Teaching</h2>
<p>James echoes the Lord’s instruction almost verbatim: “<em>But above all things, my brethren, swear not, neither by heaven, neither by the earth, neither by any other oath.</em>” James writes to Jewish Christians scattered abroad, who were well acquainted with the oath-making habits of their culture. Like Jesus, James condemns the type of swearing that multiplies verbal pledges to create an illusion of honesty. His exhortation is moral and practical: “<em>lest ye fall into condemnation</em>.” Dishonest speech—speech protected or enhanced by artificial oath-formulae—places a soul in danger.</p>
<p>James does not address civil oaths, judicial oaths, or solemn truth-binding vows made for the sake of confirmation. His instruction concerns the daily speech of Christians, who are to be so consistently upright that no oath is needed to verify their sincerity. He does not forbid what Scripture elsewhere approves.</p>
<p>The Impossible Consequences of a Total Ban on Oaths</p>
<p>If Jesus’ words were to be taken as an absolute prohibition of any and all oath-taking, then several unavoidable contradictions arise within Scripture itself.</p>
<p>God, speaking to Abraham, “<em>sware by himself</em>” (Hebrews 6:13). The inspired writer affirms that “<em>an oath for confirmation is to them an end of all strife</em>” (Hebrews 6:16) and uses this principle to show the reliability of God’s promise. If all oaths are sinful, then God would be acting sinfully in swearing an oath—a conclusion utterly impossible.</p>
<p>Christ, standing before the high priest, was placed under oath. The high priest said to Him, “<em>I adjure thee by the living God</em>” (Matthew 26:63). This language is the legal formula for compelling testimony under oath. If giving an oath were sinful, Jesus could not have complied without contradicting His own teaching. Yet Jesus answered plainly, and His answer formed the grounds of the high priest’s later accusation. He did not object to the oath; He objected to their unbelief.</p>
<p>Paul repeatedly uses oath-formulas in his epistles. “<em>God is my witness</em>” (Romans 1:9). “<em>I say the truth in Christ, I lie not</em>” (Romans 9:1). “<em>God is witness</em>” (I Thessalonians 2:5). These are not casual phrases. They are solemn affirmations invoking divine witness to the truthfulness of Paul’s statements. If all oaths are sinful, then the apostle acted contrary to the very instruction he elsewhere delivered by the Holy Spirit.</p>
<p>A total ban on all oath-taking cannot stand without creating internal contradictions in Scripture and moral inconsistencies in the character of God, Christ, and the apostles. The interpretation that creates impossibilities must be rejected.</p>
<h2>The Old Testament Foundation for Lawful Oaths</h2>
<p>Far from forbidding oaths, the Old Testament commands them when taken properly. “<em>Thou shalt fear the Lord thy God, and serve him, and shalt swear by his name</em>” (Deuteronomy 6:13). Swearing by God’s name was an act of acknowledging His sovereignty and truth. Jeremiah writes, “<em>Thou shalt swear, The Lord liveth, in truth, in judgment, and in righteousness</em>” (Jeremiah 4:2). These passages reveal that a righteous oath, taken solemnly, truthfully, and in the fear of God, was part of Israel’s covenant life.</p>
<p>Jesus did not come to contradict the Law but to fulfil it and to correct its abuses. His teaching in Matthew five does not abolish lawful oath-taking; it abolishes manipulative oath-taking. He strips away the Pharisaic additions and returns to the heart of truthfulness.</p>
<h2>What Jesus Forbids and What Jesus Allows</h2>
<p>Jesus forbids the type of swearing that attempts to use sacred or semi-sacred objects to give weight to dishonest or unreliable speech. He forbids swearing “<em>by heaven</em>,” “<em>by the earth</em>,” “<em>by Jerusalem</em>,” or “<em>by thy head</em>,” not because swearing itself is inherently sinful, but because His disciples must not engage in a speech-culture that treats truth as something negotiable. He forbids the common Jewish practice of invoking oaths in trivial or everyday communication to appear trustworthy.</p>
<p>What Jesus allows—and Scripture affirms—is the solemn oath that confirms truth in matters of weight, especially when required by civil authority or used to bear witness to truth. He does not forbid what God Himself practices, what Christ Himself submitted to, or what the apostles themselves employed by inspiration.</p>
<h2>The Principle of Letting Scripture Interpret Scripture</h2>
<p>Those who insist on an absolute prohibition often appeal to the principle of interpreting difficult passages by clear ones. The principle is sound—but it must be applied correctly. Matthew five and James five cannot be taken as “clear passages” that define all other texts, because these passages, when read in isolation, create contradictions with the actions of God, Christ, and the apostles.</p>
<p>Instead, the clear passages are those that show what God approves and what He does not. God’s own oath in Hebrews six is a clear passage. Christ’s response under oath is a clear passage. Paul’s inspired oath-formulas are clear passages. These passages must govern our understanding of Matthew five and James five, not the other way around.</p>
<p>When Jesus says “<em>swear not at all</em>,” He is addressing a specific abuse, not abolishing an entire biblical practice. If He meant to ban all oaths, He would be contradicting God’s own example and the later conduct of His apostles. Scripture does not contradict Scripture.</p>
<h2>The Moral Heart of Jesus’ Teaching</h2>
<p>The heart of Jesus’ instruction is integrity. “<em>Let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay</em>.” A Christian should be so trustworthy, so transparent, and so consistent that no oath is required to guarantee his honesty. The disciple’s normal speech should carry the full weight of truth. Oaths become unnecessary, not because they are sinful, but because Christian character should render them redundant.</p>
<p>Yet in a fallen world, civil courts, legal agreements, and solemn declarations still require oaths as a means of confirmation. These are not the manipulative, frivolous oaths Jesus condemned. They are orderly, lawful means of establishing truth, and Scripture provides no ground on which to forbid them.</p>
<h2>Conclusion</h2>
<p>The command “<em>swear not at all</em>” stands as a powerful call to integrity, honesty, and truthfulness. It condemns the deceitful, manipulative oath-taking of first-century Judaism and replaces it with a righteousness grounded in plain, reliable speech. However, Scripture does not support the view that Jesus intended to prohibit all forms of solemn oath-taking. God swears. Christ answered under oath. Paul used inspired oath-formulas. The Law commanded swearing in God’s name when done in righteousness.</p>
<p>To deny all oath-taking is to create contradictions within Scripture and to misunderstand the force and purpose of Jesus’ words. To understand Jesus is to see that He calls His disciples to a truthfulness so consistent that oaths are unnecessary in ordinary speech—but not forbidden in solemn and lawful circumstances.</p>
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<p>Hello, dear pastor,</p>
<p>I have a question for you.  Today, while I was reading the Bible, I read Deuteronomy 23:21: "You must not delay in repaying your vows to the Lord your God, for the Lord your God will seek you back, and you are guilty if you do not pay them."</p>
<p>As I read this verse, I thought, "These are the regulations of the Old Testament." If we put it in the New Testament now, will God still pursue it like the Old Testament? (I don't mean to avoid these responsibilities, but to make sure that some of the provisions of the Old Testament are still in place today.)</p>
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<blockquote><p>"<em>When you make a vow to the LORD your God, you shall not delay to pay it, for it would be sin in you, and the LORD your God will surely require it of you. However, if you refrain from vowing, it would not be sin in you. You shall be careful to perform what goes out from your lips, just as you have voluntarily vowed to the LORD your God, what you have promised</em>" (Deuteronomy 23:21-23).</p></blockquote>
<p>God is the giver of the covenants. It is not our duty to put laws from one covenant into another. See "<a href="https://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/cms/why-we-dont-follow-the-old-testament/">Why We Don't Follow the Old Testament</a>." It isn't that the Old Testament is useless. We have the Old Testament in our Bible so that we can learn from it (Romans 4:23-24; I Corinthians 9:9-10; 10:11). It illustrates the teachings in the New Testament and reinforces the message of God (II Timothy 3:16-17). We have examples of patience. We find hope that, through trials, promises are kept, and rewards are given. It is also true in the New Testament (II Corinthians 1:3-11). The prophecy about Christ wasn’t just for him alone; we learn from His example as well (I Thessalonians 1:3). In other words, we don't follow something from the Old Law directly. If we find something in the New Law, we can look back at the Old Law to illustrate the command.</p>
<p>In the New Law, we are taught to avoid oaths or vows. "<em>Again, you have heard that the ancients were told, 'You shall not make false vows, but shall fulfill your vows to the Lord.' But I say to you, make no oath at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is the footstool of His feet, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. Nor shall you make an oath by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. But let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no'; anything beyond these is of evil</em>" (Matthew 5:33-37).</p>
<p>Whether a person is giving an oath, swearing to tell the truth, making a promise, or taking a vow, all involve making a commitment bound by something else. Through the ages, people have used various things to bind their words, such as their possessions, their reputation, their religion, or their life. Anything that another person would accept can be offered to bind a person’s commitment.</p>
<p>We use oaths frequently in modern life and often don’t think about it. When purchasing a car with money loaned to us by the bank, we sign a statement promising to repay the loan and offering the car as collateral. The bank doesn’t just take our word that we will pay what we owe. Our word is bound by a physical possession that the bank can take possession of if we do not keep our promise. Legal documents, such as our tax forms, contain statements above the signature line stating that we promise what we have submitted is accurate to the best of our knowledge and that the government may impose penalties on us if we provide false or misleading information.</p>
<p>In Matthew 5:34-36, Jesus lists things not to swear by: heaven, God’s throne, the earth, Jerusalem, or the hair on your head. Each example would be an oath that Jews would have considered non-binding. According to the Mishna, a Jewish commentary on the Law, “Oaths may only be taken about what can be defined according to size, weight, or number.” In other words, a promise is not considered binding unless it was bound by something tangible that could be, at least in theory, redeemed if a person broke his oath. “If a claim concerns these, no oath is imposed: bondsmen, written documents, immovable property, and the property of the Temple.” In other words, the claimant against a broken oath must have at least a remote chance of collecting on the broken promise if the promise is to be considered valid. Further, the Mishna states that oaths sworn with the phrase “I adjure you,” “I command you,” or “I bind you” were binding, whereas a vow sworn with phrases such as “by heaven and earth” was not binding. Thus, it mattered to a Jew how an oath was worded as to whether it was binding or not. Thus, Jesus is forbidding the making of non-binding oaths, or hypocritical oaths if you will.</p>
<p>When Jesus said, “swear not at all,” he was not forbidding all oaths. The Bible contains several examples of proper oaths. God swore an oath to Abraham based on Himself (Hebrews 6:13-17). God didn’t do this because His word wasn’t trustworthy, but He placed His reputation on the line to prove to the world His faithfulness. Jesus was under oath during his trial (Matthew 26:62-64). Paul took a vow while in Antioch (Acts 18:18). These oaths were acceptable because those who took them intended to keep their promises. Making an oath with no intention of carrying it out would be lying.</p>
<p>Instead, Jesus states that Christians need not take oaths. The reason people feel the need for an oath is because of Satan’s activity in the world. Satan is the father of lies and liars (John 8:44). It is because worldly people lie that those in the world insist on having something more than a simple “yes” or “no.”</p>
<p>We see this in the Old Law: "<em>If you refrain from vowing, it would not be sin in you</em>" (Deuteronomy 21:22). Does God expect Christians to keep their word? Absolutely! Lying is forbidden, and the Lord will hold us responsible for our words (Revelation 21:8; Matthew 12:36). Putting a lie in the form of an oath doesn't make the situation better. Therefore, say what you mean and mean what you say.</p>
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<p>Hello,</p>
<p>Last year, I promised God some things in exchange for Him healing or freeing me from OCD (obsessive-compulsive disorder). I promised to stop watching a series that I watched a lot, horror movies, and anime. Well, now I am in psychiatric treatment and I still have OCD, but the thing is that in my hope of being free from this disorder, I made that promise to God, but then I broke it, which led me to a worse anxiety crisis.</p>
<p>The thing is that I am now watching soap operas that are worse than the series that I had been watching.</p>
<p>The problem is that I regret having made that promise without thinking it through, without considering whether I could fulfill it. The question is that I want to retract that promise, but not to be able to sin freely, but to choose better what I can watch and what I cannot.</p>
<p>I am on God's path, and I have improved significantly on this path. I plan to continue in this direction because it is the only path to life, and I need it.<br />
But sometimes I want to watch a romantic movie without intimate scenes or series or cartoons. I know I'm just making excuses. My mind keeps making me feel guilty about it.</p>
<p>That's why my question is, can I retract this vow or promise that I can't keep because it's really hard for me, and even makes me cry with sadness for having promised something that was my hobby?</p>
<p>What can I do? I need some advice before making a decision. Please answer me.</p>
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<p>Let me be clear, God doesn't need your promises. Promises don't make you more truthful or more likely to keep your word. Instead, promises not kept are nothing more than lies. "<em>But I say to you, make no oath at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, or by the earth, for it is the footstool of His feet, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. Nor shall you make an oath by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. But let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no'; anything beyond these is of evil</em>" (Matthew 5:34-37).</p>
<p>If you are compulsively watching shows that contain inappropriate content, then that is wrong in and of itself. "<em>Do not be deceived: 'Bad company corrupts good morals</em>" (I Corinthians 15:33). Promising not to do something wrong is foolish since God already requires you to stay away from evil.</p>
<p>If you made a foolish vow, then apologize to God for making promises when you were told not to do so.</p>
<p>It is proper to ask God for help dealing with your OCD or to ask for it to be cured if possible. You don't have to add anything extra to gain God's notice or to "force" Him to respond. You tell Him what you need, and He will respond as He sees best. "<em>This is the confidence which we have before Him, that, if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we know that He hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests which we have asked from Him</em>" (I John 5:14-15).</p>
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		<title>Why did God take so long to bring Israel into the promised land?</title>
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<p>Dear Jeffrey,</p>
<p>I have a question and would like to seek your wisdom. This pertains to God’s purpose in the various journeys involving the children of Israel. What does the scriptures say or infer about God’s purpose?</p>
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<li>God asked Abraham to pack up and move to the land of Canaan (Genesis 12:1).</li>
<li>It is a long journey, but eventually Abraham arrived at Canaan (Genesis 12:6-7).</li>
<li>Then famine struck, and Jacob had to move to Egypt, and there he found Joseph (Acts 7:11-14).</li>
<li>The children of Israel groaned to God about their suffering in Egypt (Exodus 2:23-24).</li>
<li>God instructed Moses to bring Israel out of Egypt and return to Canaan (Exodus 3:10).</li>
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<p>This turnaround from Egypt back to Canaan took about 400 or 430 years (Genesis 15:13; Exodus 12:40).</p>
<p>My question surrounds what God’s purpose was for allowing all these. Abraham arrived in Canaan, and then Israel had to migrate to Egypt, only to later return to Canaan. What does the scriptures say or infer about this? What application does this same turnaround event have for Christians today, other than to be patient and wait for the return of Jesus?</p>
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<p>When Abram was to travel to Canaan, he had a relatively small group. Even by the time of his grandson, Jacob, there were only 70 descendants. They were far too few to hold the land of Canaan. Time was needed for the family to grow, but to get the best growth, they needed someplace safe. Attacks and wars would reduce their numbers, so God sent them into Egypt. "<em>But the LORD has taken you and brought you out of the iron furnace, from Egypt, to be a people for His own possession, as today</em>" (Deuteronomy 4:20). God told Israel that the hardship and suffering they endured in Egypt caused them to become a better people. True, Egypt was a place of hard bondage, but those hardships made them strong (Deuteronomy 26:6).</p>
<p>Egyptians did not accept foreigners (Genesis 43:32), and they considered shepherds, such as Abraham's descendants, to be the lowest class of people (Genesis 46:34). Add to this that the Egyptians saw the Israelites as nothing more than slaves and the result was that there was little mingling between the Egyptians and the Israelites. Although the Israelites lived in Egypt, the cross-cultural contamination was limited.</p>
<p>At this time, Egypt was the most powerful nation on earth. It didn't even have walled cities because no one would dare attack Egypt. However, Egypt's strength became Israel's protection. God nurtured Israel by encircling them with their enemies (<span class="bible-link" data-passage="translation=esv16&amp;book=deu&amp;chapter=32&amp;verse=9&amp;verse_end=12" data-reference="Deuteronomy 32:9–12 (ESV16)" data-read-more="https://bibles.org/bible/f421fe261da7624f-01/DEU.32?passageId=DEU.32.9-DEU.32.12" data-publisher="Crossway Bibles" data-publisher-link="https://www.crossway.org/bibles" data-copyright="Scripture quotations marked (ESV) are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.">Deuteronomy 32:9-12). </span>The enemies of God’s people became the buffer that protected God’s people!</p>
<p>The hardship Israel faced in Egypt was a shadow of what was to happen to the church (<span class="bible-link" data-passage="translation=esv16&amp;book=zec&amp;chapter=13&amp;verse=7&amp;verse_end=9" data-reference="Zechariah 13:7–9 (ESV16)" data-read-more="https://bibles.org/bible/f421fe261da7624f-01/ZEC.13?passageId=ZEC.13.7-ZEC.13.9" data-publisher="Crossway Bibles" data-publisher-link="https://www.crossway.org/bibles" data-copyright="Scripture quotations marked (ESV) are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.">Zechariah 13:7-9). </span>We are kept by God’s power (I Peter 1:3-5), but our faith is allowed to be tested (I<span class="bible-link" data-passage="translation=esv16&amp;book=1pe&amp;chapter=1&amp;verse=3&amp;verse_end=5" data-reference="1 Peter 1:3–5 (ESV16)" data-read-more="https://bibles.org/bible/f421fe261da7624f-01/1PE.1?passageId=1PE.1.3-1PE.1.5" data-publisher="Crossway Bibles" data-publisher-link="https://www.crossway.org/bibles" data-copyright="Scripture quotations marked (ESV) are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved."> </span><span class="bible-link" data-passage="translation=esv16&amp;book=1pe&amp;chapter=1&amp;verse=6&amp;verse_end=7" data-reference="1 Peter 1:6–7 (ESV16)" data-read-more="https://bibles.org/bible/f421fe261da7624f-01/1PE.1?passageId=1PE.1.6-1PE.1.7" data-publisher="Crossway Bibles" data-publisher-link="https://www.crossway.org/bibles" data-copyright="Scripture quotations marked (ESV) are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.">Peter 1:6-7). The result is that we become stronger people, leading to our salvation (I Peter 1:9).</span></p>
<p>Like the Israelites, we live in a world that doesn't accept us (<span class="bible-link" data-passage="translation=esv16&amp;book=1pe&amp;chapter=4&amp;verse=1&amp;verse_end=5" data-reference="1 Peter 4:1–5 (ESV16)" data-read-more="https://bibles.org/bible/f421fe261da7624f-01/1PE.4?passageId=1PE.4.1-1PE.4.5" data-publisher="Crossway Bibles" data-publisher-link="https://www.crossway.org/bibles" data-copyright="Scripture quotations marked (ESV) are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version®, copyright © 2001 by Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.">I Peter 4:1-5). We have been chosen out of the world (John 15:19), but we live in the midst of our enemies (Philippians 2:14-16; Psalms 110:2). The Lord's people, his kingdom, dwell as strangers (I Peter 2:11-12).</span></p>
<p>God wants the maximum "harvest" of righteous souls (II Peter 3:9), but it takes time for growth. Thus, the world continues until the Father decides no more can be saved. God knows what He is doing. We have to be patient to see the end.</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2025 17:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[by Zeke Flores Everyone has regrets about unfulfilled promises. I know I do. I made a promise many years ago that remains unkept to this day. It's not that I was purposely trying to deceive those to whom I made the promise. It's not that I didn't have the time or the resources to fulfill&#8230;]]></description>
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<p>Everyone has regrets about unfulfilled promises. I know I do. I made a promise many years ago that remains unkept to this day. It's not that I was purposely trying to deceive those to whom I made the promise. It's not that I didn't have the time or the resources to fulfill it.<br />
It just kept slipping my mind, and the more it slipped my mind, the more the years slipped by. And though I've been forgiven for not keeping the promise, it still remains in the back of my mind, and it hurts to think about it.</p>
<p>See, that's the thing about being human. A person may have good intentions and give assurances regarding them, but they may still never materialize. And that's the great difference between a human promise maker and the Divine Promise Keeper. God's promises do not slip His mind, nor do other things get in the way of His carrying out His promises. His fulfillment of them may not be in our preferred time frame, or even in a way we might expect, but He will keep them, for He is a God who cannot lie. And because He loves you, He wants you to keep your promises, to do what you <b>know </b>is right.</p>
<p>Remember, you’ll not only be judged by your actions, but also by your <strong>in</strong>action.</p>
<blockquote><p>"<em>Therefore, to one who knows the right thing to do and does not do it, to him it is sin</em>" (James 4:17).</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Did I vow not to make promises?</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jeffrey Hamilton]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Nov 2024 02:19:31 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>I’m worried that I vowed to God not to make promises. Now I was talking to God, and then in the heat of the moment, I said, “I do not want to make vows,” only I didn’t say that fully, and I’m pretty sure I cut myself off halfway and said, "No vow." I had the thought of simply not making vows. (And I'm not sure if I cut myself off the moment I had that thought or not) But now I’m worried that I can’t make vows. This is because I want to get married, and I’m pretty sure marriage requires vows to make it official. But what truly worries me is my state of mind while saying it. I was at peace, and I'm pretty sure I was happy while saying it, which makes me feel scared. This is because verses like II Corinthians 9:7 say that each person must give what they purpose in their heart, not begrudgingly or under compulsion, because the Lord loves a cheerful giver, and I’m scared that I'm that cheerful giver. I did not intend to give up my ability to marry. I do not know what to do. Please help me.</p>
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<p>You're suffering from scrupulosity, a form of OCD that revolves around religious topics. Notice that you are worried about what you <strong>might</strong> have done. You treat religion as if it is a set of rituals. See: <a href="https://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/cms/i-have-ocd-religion-and-obsess-over-bad-thoughts-is-there-anything-you-can-do-to-help-me/">I have OCD-Religion and obsess over bad thoughts. Is there anything you can do to help me?</a></p>
<p>You have decided that your thoughts override what God has said. Jesus said, "<em>But let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no'; anything beyond these is of evil</em>" (Matthew 5:37). A person doesn't need vows or promises to make their statements true or sincere. God doesn't want you to lie, yet many people hide their intentions to lie behind vows. That angers God because His name is being used to deceive others.</p>
<p>It doesn't matter what you vow; it doesn't change what God said. Thus, if you had vowed not to make promises, you contradict what God said since, as you noted, vows are required for marriage and other aspects of life (such as in courts). "<em>Or if a person swears thoughtlessly with his lips to do evil or to do good, in whatever matter a man may speak thoughtlessly with an oath, and it is hidden from him, and then he comes to know it, he will be guilty in one of these</em>" (Leviticus 5:4).</p>
<p>Vowing to do good is useless. God already commands good. Your vows cannot make good better. Vowing to do evil putting yourself against God, which is sinful.</p>
<p>If you think you made a thoughtless vow, apologize to God and move on with your life.</p>
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