{"id":9938,"date":"2019-09-19T11:34:20","date_gmt":"2019-09-19T16:34:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=9938"},"modified":"2019-09-19T11:50:16","modified_gmt":"2019-09-19T16:50:16","slug":"i-got-two-women-pregnant-but-neither-will-marry-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/i-got-two-women-pregnant-but-neither-will-marry-me\/","title":{"rendered":"I got two women pregnant but neither will marry me"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t

Question:<\/h2>\n

Please, I had fornicated with two different ladies, and they both got pregnant. The first one got pregnant, and I went to pay for what her family requested. Afterward, the lady refused to marry me. The second one came into my life and also got pregnant by me. Her mother is against us getting married because I am from a poor home.<\/p>\n\t

Answer:<\/h2>\n

Just because you have sex with someone, it isn’t an indication that they love you or that they will marry you. All it indicates is that the people involved are focused on themselves and their personal pleasure. “Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body<\/em>” (I Corinthians 6:18). What you found out is that one woman used her pregnancy as a way to get money from you. The second woman values what her family wants over you.<\/p>\n

You are responsible for the children you made due to your sin. If the families allow, you need to make sure the children are taken care of and raised well.<\/p>\n

But more importantly, you need to consider the outcome of your life. As you are currently living, you won’t reach heaven. “Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge<\/em>” (Hebrews 13:4). You need to change your ways and live life as God intended. Marriage comes first and then sex and children.<\/p>\n

See\u00a0How to Become a Christian<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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