If in the remote chance that you are somewhat serious about your question, most Christians who teach pre-marital classes can address any question you might have concerning the subject. There are also a few fairly good books on the subject from a religious viewpoint:<\/p>\n
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- Love Life for Every Married Couple: How to Fall in Love, Stay in Love, Rekindle Your Love<\/a>
\u00a0by Dr. Ed Wheat<\/li>\n
- The Act of Marriage<\/a>
\u00a0by Tim LaHaye<\/li>\n
- Preparation for a Lifetime<\/a>\u00a0by Jeffrey W. Hamilton<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
For a scriptural study concerning courtship and marriage, including the proper handling of sexual relationships, please see\u00a0The Greatest Love Song Written: A Study of the Song of Solomon<\/a>. If you are still in your teenage years, please see either\u00a0Growing Up in the Lord: A Study for Teenage Boys<\/a>\u00a0or\u00a0Growing Up in the Lord: A Study for Teenage Girls<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Question: How do I have sex on my first wedding night? Explain with pictures or photos. Answer: What you have requested falls into the realm of pornography. I would recommend the article\u00a0“A Look at Pornography”\u00a0for an explanation of why this would be inappropriate. If in the remote chance that you are somewhat serious about your…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[226,63],"class_list":["post-982","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-pornography","tag-sex"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":16357,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/i-found-out-my-12-year-old-son-is-looking-at-pornography-how-do-i-handle-it\/","url_meta":{"origin":982,"position":0},"title":"I found out my 12-year-old son is looking at pornography. 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- The Act of Marriage<\/a>