{"id":96942,"date":"2026-07-25T21:32:50","date_gmt":"2026-07-26T02:32:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=96942"},"modified":"2026-07-25T21:32:50","modified_gmt":"2026-07-26T02:32:50","slug":"should-christians-not-talk-to-non-christians","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/should-christians-not-talk-to-non-christians\/","title":{"rendered":"Should Christians not talk to non-Christians?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Hello Pastor, and peace be with you this Lord&#8217;s Day.<\/p>\n<p>I have been studying the book of Romans today and have two questions:<\/p>\n<p>Question 1:<\/p>\n<p>When I sincerely turned to God, I found myself in a certain situation: I became willing to befriend and communicate only with Christians, while deleting or blocking non-believers. I felt as though chatting with those who do not believe in Jesus-especially young people-would somehow contaminate me with sin.<\/p>\n<p>Question 2:<\/p>\n<p>How do I offer myself as a living sacrifice? Does it mean that everything I do must be done for God (Romans 12:1-2)?<\/p>\n<p>May God bless you! I am mindful of your love.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden; nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven<\/em>&#8221; (Matthew 5:14-16).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>How do you teach others if you never talk to them? How do you set a good example when no one sees you?<\/p>\n<p>My relationship with my fellow Christians is stronger than with worldly people, but I still interact with people who are not following Christ. I don&#8217;t get involved in their sinful behavior, but I don&#8217;t hide either.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Do all things without grumbling or disputing; so that you will prove yourselves to be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you appear as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I will have reason to glory because I did not run in vain nor toil in vain<\/em>&#8221; (Philippians 2:14-16).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In regard to a living sacrifice, see:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/the-sacrifice-of-self\/\">The Sacrifice of Self<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/christ-first-last-and-always\/\">Christ First! Last! and Always!<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/bible-studies\/pauls-letter-to-the-romans\/service-to-god-a-holy-and-living-sacrifice\/\">Service to God: A Holy and Living Sacrifice<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Hello Pastor, and peace be with you this Lord&#8217;s Day. I have been studying the book of Romans today and have two questions: Question 1: When I sincerely turned to God, I found myself in a certain situation: I became willing to befriend and communicate only with Christians, while deleting or blocking non-believers. 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