{"id":96453,"date":"2026-07-04T10:21:10","date_gmt":"2026-07-04T15:21:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=96453"},"modified":"2026-07-04T10:21:10","modified_gmt":"2026-07-04T15:21:10","slug":"shame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/shame\/","title":{"rendered":"Shame"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<p>by Terry Wane Benton<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;<em>For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret<\/em>&#8221; (Ephesians 5:12). Yet many want to flaunt what should be held in shame. Some want others to see their <b>pride <\/b>in their rebellion against the word of God and want to shame those who do not support their abomination and sinfulness. Jeremiah 6 speaks of people who were not at all ashamed of their abominations, so that &#8220;<em>neither can they blush<\/em>.&#8221; People sear their consciences and try to convince themselves that their evil desire is actually good in an effort to justify themselves. Some even misuse the grace of God and turn it into license (Jude 4) to continue in their choice of sin (Romans 6:1f). All efforts to no longer feel shame for their choice of sin.<\/p>\n<p>Anyone who flaunts sin should be ashamed before God. Adding denial to the list of sins only delays repentance and salvation. Until an alcoholic faces the truth and quits denying he has a problem, he will never be saved from his problem and his state of divine condemnation. The word of God exposes the sin problem. Let all of it be taught, else some sins will be flaunted, and we help people deceive themselves to hell. (I Corinthians 6:8-10). That is not good!<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t point out sin for the sake of shaming people, but with the hope that shame before God might lead to reconciliation with God and the transformation of heart and life.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Terry Wane Benton &#8220;For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret&#8221; (Ephesians 5:12). Yet many want to flaunt what should be held in shame. Some want others to see their pride in their rebellion against the word of God and want to shame those who&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[27],"tags":[601,578],"class_list":["post-96453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-article","tag-embarrassment","tag-shame"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":18494,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/not-ashamed-to-sin-but-ashamed-to-repent\/","url_meta":{"origin":96453,"position":0},"title":"Not Ashamed to Sin, but Ashamed to Repent","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 26, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"by Jeffrey W. Hamilton Text: Daniel 9:4-19 \u00a0 I.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0In Robinson Crusoe, by Daniel Defoe, Robinson Crusoe left home to be a sailor against the wishes of his parents. He soon came to regret his decision, but he would not return home because he did not want to admit that he\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Audio&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Audio","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/audio\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":44453,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/unashamed-of-the-shame\/","url_meta":{"origin":96453,"position":1},"title":"Unashamed of the Shame","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"March 9, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"by Doy Moyer \"Let none of you suffer as a murderer, a thief, an evildoer, or a meddler. But if anyone suffers as a Christian, let him not be ashamed but let him glorify God in having that name\" (I Peter 4:15-16). 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Hamilton Text: Psalms 44 \u00a0 I.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0It is surprising the odd ideas people have about forgiveness \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0A.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Forgiveness is the dismissal of any debt or obligation to me \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a01.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I cannot forgive someone\u2019s sin. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0a.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0This is only something God can do, because our sins incur a penalty, which God \u2013\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Audio&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Audio","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/audio\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":50638,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-viewing-movies-with-brief-nudity-a-sin\/","url_meta":{"origin":96453,"position":3},"title":"Is viewing movies with brief nudity a sin?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 28, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Is viewing movies with brief nudity a sin? 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