{"id":95604,"date":"2026-05-13T14:12:11","date_gmt":"2026-05-13T19:12:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=95604"},"modified":"2026-05-13T14:12:11","modified_gmt":"2026-05-13T19:12:11","slug":"a-word-fitly-spoken-the-power-of-a-positive-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/a-word-fitly-spoken-the-power-of-a-positive-no\/","title":{"rendered":"A Word Fitly Spoken &#8211; The Power of a Positive &#8220;No&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\tby Andrew G. Berendt<br \/>\nvia\u00a0<em>Sentry Magazine<\/em>, Vol. 21 No. 1, March 1995\n<p>As you know, there is a nationwide campaign underway, being touted by everyone from the former First Lady of the United States to local elementary school teachers. We are reminded by billboards, T.V. and radio ads, bumper stickers, and badges, to &#8220;Just Say No!&#8221; This modern thrust seems to have become rather effective in curbing the tendency to engage in immoral and harmful behaviors, as the high school students polled (1990) reported a decrease in experimenting with illegal drugs, for the first time since such surveys were conducted. [Editor&#8217;s note: As the campaign has lost favor with the current administration, the drug use figures are inching back up. Hmmm, fdc.]<\/p>\nI heard of a prominent denominational preacher who delivered a very powerful and direct sermon during the late 1950s in which he illustrated &#8220;The Power of a Positive &#8216;NO&#8217;.&#8221;<br \/>\nI&#8217;m happy to report to you that wise King Solomon advised a long while ago, &#8220;<em>My son, if sinners entice you, Do not consent,&#8221; and further, &#8220;do not walk in the way with them&#8230;<\/em>&#8221; (Proverbs 1:7, 19). He was encouraging the attitude of heart that comes from a deliberate and predetermined decision to &#8220;Just Say N0!&#8221; to any and all behavior that would jeopardize his standing with the Almighty. The very best way to prepare to prevail in the inevitable temptations that invade our sanctity and seek to estrange us from our Heavenly Father (Isaiah 59:1-2) is to decide firmly in advance to always do what we know to be right! See also Exodus 23:2 and I Corinthians 15:33-34.\n<p>As the wise man is directing these proverbs to his young son (Proverbs 1:4, 8-10, 15; 2:1; 3:1, etc.), his intent is to save his son from much of the misery and heartache that comes from these empty pursuits, which promise so much and are simply incapable of delivering any satisfaction whatsoever. The reason these types of activities leave us feeling empty and guilty is that they are wrong! Solomon is showing us that the trial-and-error method is not the right approach to pursuing things contrary to God&#8217;s will. Faithful preachers have been telling us for years that there is no right way to do a wrong thing, and I might add that there never comes a right time to do wrong things, either.<\/p>\n<p>We must, as parents and otherwise responsible adults, set loving limits and proper examples for all &#8211; especially our young charges. As young people, let us look up to and carefully heed the wise and proper advice of our experienced elders, parents, preachers, and other teachers. As we read in Proverbs 3:11-18, we learn that the Lord corrects those whom He loves, and that these warnings are for our good, and to keep us from doing dangerous and harmful things, and that they aren&#8217;t given simply to deny us pleasure. When we read Ecclesiastes 2:24-26 and 5:18-20, we see that God wants us to enjoy life, but that we are ultimately responsible to Him (Ecclesiastes 11:7- 12:1).<\/p>\n<p>A final thought, as I find it helpful to study and compare various reliable translations of God&#8217;s word, is a &#8220;gem of wisdom&#8221; I discovered in Titus 2:11-14 while reading from the NIV, <em>&#8220;For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say &#8220;No&#8221; to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age<\/em>&#8230;.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Andrew G. Berendt via\u00a0Sentry Magazine, Vol. 21 No. 1, March 1995 As you know, there is a nationwide campaign underway, being touted by everyone from the former First Lady of the United States to local elementary school teachers. We are reminded by billboards, T.V. and radio ads, bumper stickers, and badges, to &#8220;Just Say&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[27],"tags":[763,38,354],"class_list":["post-95604","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-article","tag-decisions","tag-morality","tag-responsibility"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":50310,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-to-stay-positive-in-a-negative-world\/","url_meta":{"origin":95604,"position":0},"title":"How to Stay Positive in a Negative World","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"July 22, 2022","format":false,"excerpt":"by Hugh Fulford Christianity is both positive and negative. 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