{"id":93689,"date":"2026-02-05T15:10:13","date_gmt":"2026-02-05T21:10:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=93689"},"modified":"2026-02-05T15:10:13","modified_gmt":"2026-02-05T21:10:13","slug":"dealing-with-grief","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/dealing-with-grief\/","title":{"rendered":"Dealing with Grief"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<p>by Zeke Flores<\/p>\n<p>When Sarah dies, Abraham mourns deeply &#8212; and then he rises to secure a burial place.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a tender picture of grief and responsibility living side by side. Abraham doesn&#8217;t rush past his pain, but he also doesn&#8217;t get stuck in it. He honors Sarah by grieving honestly and acting wisely.<\/p>\n<p>This reminds us that faith doesn&#8217;t erase grief. Faith gives us a way to walk through it. Sometimes Christians feel pressure to &#8220;be strong&#8221; or &#8220;stay positive,&#8221; but Abraham shows us that godly people cry real tears. Loss hurts. Change hurts. Endings hurt. And that&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<p>But Abraham also models something else: even in grief, we can take the next faithful step. Not all the steps, just the next one.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re navigating loss or transition, don&#8217;t deny it, but feel it. But also trust that God will help you rise, steady your heart, and guide you forward.<\/p>\n<p>Grief isn&#8217;t a sign of weak faith; it&#8217;s a sign of deep love.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Abraham went in to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her. Then Abraham rose<\/em> &#8230;&#8221; (Genesis 23:3-4).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Zeke Flores When Sarah dies, Abraham mourns deeply &#8212; and then he rises to secure a burial place. It&#8217;s a tender picture of grief and responsibility living side by side. Abraham doesn&#8217;t rush past his pain, but he also doesn&#8217;t get stuck in it. He honors Sarah by grieving honestly and acting wisely. This&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[27],"tags":[49,652,746,391],"class_list":["post-93689","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-article","tag-faith","tag-grief","tag-sadness","tag-sorrow"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":8418,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/are-gentiles-also-descendants-of-abraham\/","url_meta":{"origin":93689,"position":0},"title":"Are Gentiles also descendants of Abraham?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"February 11, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: If we Gentiles are also descendants of Abraham, then from whose mother: Hagar, Sarah or Keturah? Is it from Keturah to whom she bore Abraham six legitimate sons after Abraham married her after Sarah died? Am I correct to say that Muslims are descendants of Ishmael who later intermarry\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":48766,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-can-god-expect-me-to-remain-a-christian-in-the-face-of-the-death-of-my-son\/","url_meta":{"origin":93689,"position":1},"title":"How can God expect me to remain a Christian in the face of the death of my son?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"July 26, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hi there, I recently lost my newborn son due to a premature birth about a month ago. It has been really hard on both me and my husband. We have been gradually picking up our regular routines since it happened, like going back to work and church, but I\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":95962,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/god-never-asked-you-to-hide-your-pain\/","url_meta":{"origin":93689,"position":2},"title":"God Never Asked You to Hide Your Pain","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 5, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"by Nathan Ward via\u00a0InLight Media What do you do with your sadness, grief, disappointment, anger, or confusion before God? Many Christians have been taught-explicitly or implicitly-to hide their negative emotions, put on a brave face, and \"just have faith.\" But when we open the pages of Scripture, we find something\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Video&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Video","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/video\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":17963,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/why-wasnt-rachel-buried-with-jacob-but-leah-was\/","url_meta":{"origin":93689,"position":3},"title":"Why wasn&#8217;t Rachel buried with Jacob but Leah was?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"February 23, 2009","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Why wasn't Rachel buried with Jacob but Leah was? Answer: Rachel died shortly after childbirth during a journey from Bethel to \"The Tower of the Flock\", which is believed to have been in the area Bethlehem. \"Then they journeyed from Bethel. And when there was but a little distance\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":36597,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-many-sons-did-abraham-have\/","url_meta":{"origin":93689,"position":4},"title":"How many sons did Abraham have?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 20, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Regarding Genesis 20, where it says Sarah was untouched. So being the wife of Abraham she had no relations with him?\u00a0 Then how was it written she was barren?\u00a0 Abraham was married to his half-sister so he only told half a lie to the Pharaoh. 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