{"id":9335,"date":"2007-04-06T20:50:45","date_gmt":"2007-04-07T01:50:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=9335"},"modified":"2019-09-09T21:15:21","modified_gmt":"2019-09-10T02:15:21","slug":"can-a-woman-lead-prayers-at-home-when-her-husband-is-present","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-a-woman-lead-prayers-at-home-when-her-husband-is-present\/","title":{"rendered":"Can a woman lead prayers at home when her husband is present?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>I understand why men lead prayer in public and not women (I Timothy 2:11-12; I Corinthians 14:34). But what about my wife and I praying together in private, is it wrong for her to lead us in prayer?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>The passage in I Corinthians 14 deals with the worship service (I Corinthians 14:23) and thus does not apply in a private family setting. However, the passage in I Timothy contains general principles of Christian conduct. Thus, the command &#8220;<em>Let a woman learn in silence with all submission. And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence<\/em>&#8221; (I Timothy 2:11-12) still applies. &#8220;Silence&#8221; is not absolute silence, but the portrayal of a quiet attitude (see &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/silent-in-the-churches\/\">Silent in the Churches<\/a>&#8221; for more details). It doesn&#8217;t forbid the asking of questions because even in the situation of worship where women are not to speak, they are encouraged to ask questions at home (I Corinthians 14:35).<\/p>\n<p>The one saying a prayer is leading those who are listening. It is a position of authority. That position was given to men. &#8220;<em>For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression<\/em>&#8221; (I Timothy 2:13-14). It is not proper for a wife to take on a position not given to her by God, nor is it proper for a husband to place his wife in a position not authorized by God. &#8220;<em>Imitate me, just as I also imitate Christ. Now I praise you, brethren, that you remember me in all things and keep the traditions just as I delivered them to you. But I want you to know that the head of every man is Christ, the head of woman is man, and the head of Christ is God<\/em>&#8221; (I Corinthians 11:1-3). We do not have the right to change this ordering, even on a temporary basis.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I understand why men lead prayer in public and not women (I Timothy 2:11-12; I Corinthians 14:34). But what about my wife and I praying together in private, is it wrong for her to lead us in prayer? Answer: The passage in I Corinthians 14 deals with the worship service (I Corinthians 14:23) and&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[1510,82],"class_list":["post-9335","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-prayers","tag-womens-roles"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":5069,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-a-woman-speak-out-in-response-to-a-question-or-say-amen-during-the-worship\/","url_meta":{"origin":9335,"position":0},"title":"Can a woman speak out in response to a question or say &#8220;amen&#8221; during the worship?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 27, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Is it scriptural for a woman to speak out during a public worship service to answer a question asked by the preacher? Is it scriptural for a woman to say \"amen\" at the close of public prayers?\u00a0 I have noticed this being done lately, and I thought women were\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":8097,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-a-woman-teach-a-man-in-private\/","url_meta":{"origin":9335,"position":1},"title":"Can a woman teach a man in private?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 13, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: One of our lady members has a sister and brother-in-law who are not members of the church. She asked her brother-in-law if he would study with me. He told her, \"No!\" Only with herself and his wife. So, this sister asked me if she would be wrong teaching them\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":7479,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/could-you-clarify-when-women-may-speak-in-church\/","url_meta":{"origin":9335,"position":2},"title":"Could you clarify when women may speak in church?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 20, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I have been having a terrible time in our Bible study on Sunday mornings.\u00a0 I had been approached by at least two people saying it bothered them that I spoke up in class.\u00a0 One couple said that I was usurping the authority of the speaker and that I should\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":7889,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/silent-in-the-churches\/","url_meta":{"origin":9335,"position":3},"title":"Silent in the Churches","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"August 20, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Text: I Corinthians 14:34-37 \u00a0 I.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Interest has risen in the subject of women speaking during Bible classes and in the assembly. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0A.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I would like for us to delve into this topic in detail, but first I would like to commend the women here. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a01.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Recently, some of the women here became\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Sermon&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Sermon","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/sermon\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":93630,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/the-role-of-women-in-the-church\/","url_meta":{"origin":9335,"position":4},"title":"The Role of Women in the Church","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"February 1, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"by Mike Johnson via Seeking Things Above The role of women in society has changed dramatically in recent years.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Some changes have been good, but many have not.\u00a0 Societal changes eventually filter into the church.\u00a0 Renewed discussion is occurring on this issue, and some are contending for an expanded role\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Article&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Article","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/article\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":66225,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-it-proper-for-a-church-to-pray-together-silently\/","url_meta":{"origin":9335,"position":5},"title":"Is it proper for a church to pray together silently?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 28, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Good day, brother Jeffery, Thanks for always answering questions. 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