{"id":9245,"date":"2007-04-04T21:33:23","date_gmt":"2007-04-05T02:33:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=9245"},"modified":"2019-09-08T21:35:54","modified_gmt":"2019-09-09T02:35:54","slug":"is-loving-each-other-at-the-age-of-17-right-or-wrong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-loving-each-other-at-the-age-of-17-right-or-wrong\/","title":{"rendered":"Is loving each other at the age of 17 right or wrong?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Is loving each other at the age of 17 right or wrong?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>Your question is too vague for me to give you a good answer. You have a love for your parents from the time you are a small child, and that is certainly right.<\/p>\n<p>People are quite capable of falling in love during their teenage years, but it doesn&#8217;t imply that getting married at 17 would be a wise choice. In fact, in many areas of the world, a person is not able to marry until they are older. Even if marriage were possible, there is a problem that arises when a person is below the age of majority &#8212; you can&#8217;t get a good-paying job, sign a contract on an apartment, and do many other legal transactions. Wisdom would be to wait until a marriage relationship is practical. And if you are both truly in love, then the delay will not matter. &#8220;<em>Love is patient &#8230;\u00a0<\/em>&#8221; (I Corinthians 13:4).<\/p>\n<p>But the use of the word &#8220;loving&#8221; has been abused. To some people, it doesn&#8217;t mean a strong preference for another person, but sexual intercourse. Such is not proper when two people are not married. &#8220;<em>Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge<\/em>&#8221; (Hebrews 13:4).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Is loving each other at the age of 17 right or wrong? Answer: Your question is too vague for me to give you a good answer. You have a love for your parents from the time you are a small child, and that is certainly right. People are quite capable of falling in love&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[149,1572,65],"class_list":["post-9245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-dating","tag-fornication","tag-love"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":36642,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-it-a-sin-to-love-a-girl-who-is-underaged\/","url_meta":{"origin":9245,"position":0},"title":"Is it a sin to love a girl who is underaged?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"February 25, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Is it wrong to be in love with an under-aged girl? 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It is no secret that many marriages fail in the world and a number of them fail among\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":64252,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-do-i-convince-my-girlfriend-that-im-the-right-person-for-her\/","url_meta":{"origin":9245,"position":2},"title":"How do I convince my girlfriend that I&#8217;m the right person for her?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"November 26, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Good day, I'm in my mid-twenties and my girlfriend is in her early-twenties. We've been dating for just over a year and we love each other very deeply. We are committed to each other with the intention of being together long-term. 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They might be nice to each other, get each other things, and\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":12254,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-it-wrong-to-enter-into-a-relationship-at-the-age-of-19\/","url_meta":{"origin":9245,"position":4},"title":"Is it wrong to enter into a relationship at the age of 19?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 8, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I want to know if it is wrong for a Christian girl to enter into a relationship at 19 years of age without having sex. Answer: Much depends on your definition of \"relationship\" and \"sex.\" These days these words are so loosely defined that just about anything goes. 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