{"id":92100,"date":"2025-11-13T14:52:45","date_gmt":"2025-11-13T20:52:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=92100"},"modified":"2025-11-13T14:52:45","modified_gmt":"2025-11-13T20:52:45","slug":"what-if-a-man-found-out-that-one-of-his-children-was-sired-by-another-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/what-if-a-man-found-out-that-one-of-his-children-was-sired-by-another-man\/","title":{"rendered":"What if a man found out that one of his children was sired by another man?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Dear Beloved,<\/p>\n<p>If, after nearly 15 years in marriage, a brother later discovers that one of his children isn&#8217;t his, does he have the right to divorce and remarry based on deception and infidelity?<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for your time!<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>It would depend. Was this due to a momentary weakness, which the wife repented of and never allowed to happen again? Then she has shown true repentance and should be forgiven. Alternatively, if this is yet another piece of evidence in a long list of suspicions that hasn&#8217;t stopped, then the husband would be within his rights to end the marriage.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Dear Beloved, If, after nearly 15 years in marriage, a brother later discovers that one of his children isn&#8217;t his, does he have the right to divorce and remarry based on deception and infidelity? Thank you for your time! Answer: It would depend. Was this due to a momentary weakness, which the wife repented&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[66,167],"class_list":["post-92100","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-adultery","tag-divorce"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":54334,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-a-woman-divorce-her-husband-because-he-hid-the-fact-that-he-was-impotent\/","url_meta":{"origin":92100,"position":0},"title":"Can a woman divorce her husband because he hid the fact that he was impotent?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 29, 2018","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: What can the church do in a situation where a sister says she has been deceived by a brother who is impotent? He concealed the matter until he had married the sister. Can the sister marry another person since she desires children and was misled? Answer: The short answer\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":31023,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/should-i-divorce-my-husband\/","url_meta":{"origin":92100,"position":1},"title":"Should I divorce my husband?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"December 23, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I am married with two children and one on the way. I recently discovered that my husband was having an affair with another woman. I am questioning if divorce is the right decision. 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