{"id":91619,"date":"2025-10-27T22:18:41","date_gmt":"2025-10-28T03:18:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=91619"},"modified":"2025-10-27T22:18:41","modified_gmt":"2025-10-28T03:18:41","slug":"one-word-to-transform-your-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/one-word-to-transform-your-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"One Word to Transform Your Parenting"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<p>by Scott Smelser<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"ONE WORD to Transform Your Parenting\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/oMreJyYbB-4?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Parenting can feel exhausting and confusing. How do you train your child in a way that works-and reflects biblical wisdom? The answer may be simpler than you think. It starts with teaching your child to respect one small but powerful word: &#8220;No.&#8221; In this video, Scott Smelser explains why teaching your kids what &#8220;No&#8221; really means is one of the most important steps in parenting. We&#8217;ll talk about:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Why discipline is different from control<\/li>\n<li>How to teach toddlers respect and obedience early<\/li>\n<li>The role of &#8220;No&#8221; in setting boundaries and keeping kids safe<\/li>\n<li>How Christian parents can train their children with biblical principles<\/li>\n<li>Four lifelong lessons toddlers learn when &#8220;No means No&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This lesson isn&#8217;t just for toddlers-it shapes your kids as they grow into teenagers and adults.\u00a0When children learn to respect &#8220;No&#8221; early, they develop respect for authority, self-control, and the ability to choose right over wrong-even when no one is watching.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Scott Smelser Parenting can feel exhausting and confusing. How do you train your child in a way that works-and reflects biblical wisdom? The answer may be simpler than you think. It starts with teaching your child to respect one small but powerful word: &#8220;No.&#8221; In this video, Scott Smelser explains why teaching your kids&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1028],"tags":[665,106,29,107],"class_list":["post-91619","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-parenting","tag-child-rearing","tag-discipline","tag-parenting","tag-raising-children"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":62408,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/discipline\/","url_meta":{"origin":91619,"position":0},"title":"Discipline","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 23, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"by Scott Smelser The Family","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Parenting&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Parenting","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/parenting\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":92089,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-it-still-possible-to-raise-godly-children\/","url_meta":{"origin":91619,"position":1},"title":"Is It Still Possible to Raise Godly Children?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"November 13, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"by Darrell Smelser via\u00a0InLight Media Marriage is hard on its own. 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Hamilton Text: Proverbs 3:13-26 \u00a0 I.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Toddlers \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0A.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0A wonderful age. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a01.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Everything is a new and fresh delight \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a02.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Curious about everything \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0a.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Often into things forbidden, not because of maliciousness \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0b.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0But curiosity with what is behind this, with what happens with that? \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0B.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Beginnings of communications \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a01.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Relief! 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