{"id":90011,"date":"2025-09-02T14:47:27","date_gmt":"2025-09-02T19:47:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=90011"},"modified":"2025-09-02T14:47:27","modified_gmt":"2025-09-02T19:47:27","slug":"goodbyes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/goodbyes\/","title":{"rendered":"Goodbyes"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<p>by Chadwick Brewer<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away<\/em>&#8221; (Revelation 21:4).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Rotten, awful, very bad, no good goodbyes. Unfortunately, goodbyes are a part of our everyday lives. They often accompany getting a new job, moving to a new house or town, starting at a new school, or beginning a new chapter in life. It seems that in this world, many of the great adventures and fresh beginnings are tinged with sadness because of the goodbyes that must be said.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes goodbyes are meant to be temporary, but they end up lasting much longer than expected, sometimes for the rest of our lives. Far too often, goodbyes are one-sided, spoken to someone who will never be on this plane again. When that final curtain drops and the veil is drawn, it is the great tragedy of life; the end that should not have been. On the one hand, it is the most natural thing of all, since it happens to everyone. On the other hand, it is the most unnatural catastrophe.<\/p>\n<p>Jesus came as a forerunner to conquer death and the grave, so that the most unnatural enemy, death itself, would be vanquished. He has also gone before us to prepare an eternal abode, where there is no more parting and therefore no need for goodbyes. No more tears shed in sorrow at that rotten, awful, very bad, no good word.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Chadwick Brewer &#8220;He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away&#8221; (Revelation 21:4). Rotten, awful, very bad, no good goodbyes. Unfortunately, goodbyes are a part of our everyday lives. They often&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[27],"tags":[109],"class_list":["post-90011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-article","tag-death"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":17990,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/am-i-doomed-to-hell-is-it-a-sin-to-be-gay\/","url_meta":{"origin":90011,"position":0},"title":"Am I doomed to hell? Is it a sin to be gay?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"February 25, 2009","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I am 20 years old. I am have been a sinner most of my life. I want to change my evil ways. Sometimes I feel my soul is doomed to hell to burn with Satan. I pray sometimes, but I still feel lost. I have one? I am bisexual.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":6939,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/since-children-are-no-longer-stoned-for-disobedience-how-can-homosexuality-be-called-wrong\/","url_meta":{"origin":90011,"position":1},"title":"Since children are no longer stoned for disobedience, how can homosexuality be called wrong?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"July 19, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: During a recent \u2018homosexuality\u2019 debate someone has thrown out (and judging by Google it\u2019s the newest rallying cry) that we can\u2019t oppose homosexuality while at the same time opposing the stoning of disobedient children. 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A part of the requirements for observing the Sabbath was the avoidance of work. \"Observe the Sabbath day, to keep it holy, as the LORD your\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":32074,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/will-we-experience-romantic-love-in-heaven\/","url_meta":{"origin":90011,"position":4},"title":"Will we experience romantic love in heaven?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"February 15, 2021","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: If a person dies before getting to marry and experience sex and romantic love, will they experience that in heaven or the new earth? Will romantic love be done away with forever after death? I really enjoy that aspect of life and don't want it to disappear forever. 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