{"id":89804,"date":"2025-08-27T21:46:49","date_gmt":"2025-08-28T02:46:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=89804"},"modified":"2025-08-27T21:46:49","modified_gmt":"2025-08-28T02:46:49","slug":"four-problems-with-worry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/four-problems-with-worry\/","title":{"rendered":"Four Problems with Worry"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<p>by Warren Berkley<\/p>\n<p>By &#8220;worry,&#8221; I mean the debilitating, nagging sense of doom that<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>goes further than concern and sympathy,<\/li>\n<li>does not involve any remedial activity to solve a real problem, and<\/li>\n<li>is characterized by habitual, constant churning thoughts of despair.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It is often unreasonable and a prelude to depression. Webster&#8217;s Dictionary (1913, p. 1666) says: &#8220;to feel or express undue care and anxiety; to manifest disquietude or pain; to be fretful&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>Disproportional<\/h2>\n<p>Worry is often disproportionate to reality. It becomes an emotion that is difficult to contain in proper, reasonable bounds. Illustration: Your teenage son is ten minutes later than the usual arrival time from school. Your first thoughts may be well within the range of possibility: traffic, he had some necessary task at school, or someone needed a ride home. But as the clock ticks, your thoughts move away from the probable toward the tragic or bizarre. A traffic accident&#8230; he wrecked the car, and it was his fault&#8230; There is a serious injury&#8230; several are dead&#8230; And as the delay continues for a few more minutes, our imagination conjures up other images, even darker. This seems to be the nature of worry; it is so difficult to contain these negative thoughts of dread. A man once said, &#8220;Don&#8217;t tell me that worry doesn&#8217;t do any good. I know better. The things I worry about don&#8217;t ever happen!&#8221; Isn&#8217;t it so? A Swedish proverb says, &#8220;Worry gives a small thing a big shadow.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2>Distracting<\/h2>\n<p>Worry is distracting. It is so hard to concentrate when you are worrying; it is troublesome to deal with people in a kind and friendly manner. Illustration: You are at a crisis point in your financial condition; bills are soon due, and the money isn&#8217;t in the bank. As the due dates approach, you are less productive in your job, and it is increasingly more challenging for your loved ones to deal with your negative mood. (Have you considered &#8211; worry over finances can lead to less responsibility; therefore, less money and more worry!!) Worry robs us of the energy we need to apply to all our life&#8217;s responsibilities. But when some worrisome problem distracts you, the daily routine of duties continues. But there&#8217;s more.<\/p>\n<h2>Unproductive<\/h2>\n<p>Worry keeps us from productive activity. While immersed in worry, we tend to let distraction introduce neglect of duty. Illustration: I read this somewhere many years ago, and I apologize for the absence of documentation. Despite that oversight, I cannot resist using it: Worry has never paid a bill or put a meal on the table. It has never cured a serious illness, but has caused many. Worry has never solved a marriage problem or successfully raised a child. It has never prevented a church problem or solved a personal conflict. Worry has never united a church, converted a sinner, or brought back an apostate. It has never repaired a car, fixed the plumbing, or reversed the aging process. We might add, it has never added one cubit unto the measure of a man&#8217;s life (Matthew 6:27).<\/p>\n<h2>Distrustful<\/h2>\n<p>Worry is a symptom of a lack of trust in God. This is the worst problem associated with worry. And in the passage quoted above (Matthew 6), Jesus not only teaches the futility of worry, but He also tells us not to do it: &#8220;<em>Do not worry<\/em>&#8221; (Matthew 6:25, 31, 34). He wants us to know our heavenly Father knows what we need, and our role is to put Him first (Matthew 6:32-34). Making God our first priority is an act of trust. Worry contradicts our claim of trust in God. {By the way, you also cannot read this text in Matthew 6 without seeing one of the basic attachments that cause anxiety: <strong>money!<\/strong> Surely we need to realize that money can be an excellent servant but is a horrible master. See Psalms 127:2 and 39:6.}<\/p>\n<p>The answer is trust in God, as depicted in Psalms 37:5, where you &#8220;<em>commit your way to the Lord<\/em>,&#8221; and &#8220;<em>trust in Him, and He shall bring it to pass<\/em>.&#8221; This trust yields the confession: &#8220;<em>I sought Jehovah, and He answered me, and from all my fears did deliver me<\/em>,&#8221; (Psalms 34:4).<\/p>\n<p>Here are six things I have written on a card and posted on our refrigerator. Despair is not necessary because:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>You can always pray (Philippians 4:6-7).<\/li>\n<li>In suffering, there is always the potential to grow, mature, and learn (James 1:2-4; Romans 5:1-4).<\/li>\n<li>There is value in having your faith tested (I Peter 1:6-7).<\/li>\n<li>Whatever the problem is, that problem will not make it into heaven (Revelation 21:7).<\/li>\n<li>God is good, regardless of what happens on earth (John 10:11; Psalms 18:1-3).<\/li>\n<li>There are some things we can know (II Corinthians 4:1-10, 14).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Friends, I know this works because my refrigerator doesn&#8217;t worry about anything!<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Warren Berkley By &#8220;worry,&#8221; I mean the debilitating, nagging sense of doom that goes further than concern and sympathy, does not involve any remedial activity to solve a real problem, and is characterized by habitual, constant churning thoughts of despair. It is often unreasonable and a prelude to depression. Webster&#8217;s Dictionary (1913, p. 1666)&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[27],"tags":[507,906],"class_list":["post-89804","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-article","tag-anxiety","tag-worry"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":82344,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/worry\/","url_meta":{"origin":89804,"position":0},"title":"Worry","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"December 23, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"by Zeke Flores It needles you, pokes you, deflates you, and distracts you. It causes more questions than answers because you spend more time discouraged about the obstacle than looking for a solution around it. It makes you expend wheel-spinning energy that, in the end, makes no progress. Then, it\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Article&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Article","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/article\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/worry-201x300.avif","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":28584,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/any-suggestions-for-obsessive-worrying\/","url_meta":{"origin":89804,"position":1},"title":"Any suggestions for obsessive worrying?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"August 21, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I am a member of the Lord's church and have been since my teenage years. I am now middle-aged and have kids and a husband. For many years I have dealt with unwanted and compulsive thoughts in which they have all been pretty much related to worry and fear.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":47019,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/what-do-you-consider-to-be-worry\/","url_meta":{"origin":89804,"position":2},"title":"What do you consider to be worry?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 26, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: What do you consider to be worry? I mean, I worry about losing interest in God and not having that same feeling I get when I desire to read a story in the Bible or I just get scared I'm doing something wrong because sometimes I don't feel close\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":29067,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/worry-worry-worry\/","url_meta":{"origin":89804,"position":3},"title":"Worry, Worry, Worry","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"December 28, 2016","format":false,"excerpt":"by Joshua V. Best Everyone knows the signs: sleepless nights, sick stomachs, mental breakdowns, deep depression, hiding away, high blood pressure. turning to drugs and alcohol, etc... These are indicators an individual has fallen victim to his own worry. Worry eats people alive, and Christians are not immune. It touches\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Article&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Article","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/article\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/worry-150x300.png?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200},"classes":[]},{"id":50183,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/what-does-it-mean-to-give-your-problems-to-the-lord\/","url_meta":{"origin":89804,"position":4},"title":"What does it mean to give your problems to the Lord?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"March 13, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: What does it mean to give your problems to the Lord? Does it come down to the fact that things on earth are temporary and we should be looking at the bigger picture? Answer: \"Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":61272,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/notes-on-anxiety\/","url_meta":{"origin":89804,"position":5},"title":"Notes on Anxiety","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 9, 2005","format":false,"excerpt":"Psalms 46:10 Psalms 55:22 Psalms 94:19 Isaiah 26:3 Matthew 5:44 Matthew 6:25-34 Luke 6:28 Luke 10:38-42 Luke 12:22-31 John 14:27 II Corinthians 1:3-4 Philippians 4:6-7 I Peter 5:6-7","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Notes&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Notes","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/notes\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]}],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89804","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=89804"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89804\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=89804"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=89804"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=89804"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}