{"id":8328,"date":"2007-01-31T14:04:00","date_gmt":"2007-01-31T20:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=8328"},"modified":"2019-08-25T14:06:06","modified_gmt":"2019-08-25T19:06:06","slug":"why-cant-i-get-pregnant-with-my-boyfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/why-cant-i-get-pregnant-with-my-boyfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"Why can&#8217;t I get pregnant with my boyfriend?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>I had sex several times with my boyfriend. I feel nauseous and have been throwing up. I took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. I am supposed to have my menstruation in a couple of days and it hasn&#8217;t come yet. So what does that mean? Is something wrong with me or him? I have a three-year-old daughter from a previous relationship and he has a four-year-old daughter from a previous relationship. I am confused please help.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>I had put your question on the back burner for a while because I have a hard time fathoming why a woman is purposely trying to bring children into the world when she is not married. Don&#8217;t you see what it does to a child who can&#8217;t count on the man sleeping with his mother to be there next year? It appears to be an act of complete selfishness on your part.<\/p>\n<p>Please, make a commitment to a true man. &#8220;<i>Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge<\/i>&#8221; (Hebrews 13:4).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I had sex several times with my boyfriend. I feel nauseous and have been throwing up. I took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. I am supposed to have my menstruation in a couple of days and it hasn&#8217;t come yet. So what does that mean? Is something wrong with me or&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[1572,571],"class_list":["post-8328","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-fornication","tag-pregnancy"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":41266,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/will-god-bring-my-boyfriend-back-to-take-responsibility-for-me-and-our-soon-to-be-born-child\/","url_meta":{"origin":8328,"position":0},"title":"Will God bring my boyfriend back to take responsibility for me and our soon-to-be-born child?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"December 12, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Good Afternoon, I am a strong believer and was recently engaged to a believer for about a year and a half. 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