{"id":8028,"date":"2006-12-16T16:54:29","date_gmt":"2006-12-16T22:54:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=8028"},"modified":"2019-08-22T16:56:57","modified_gmt":"2019-08-22T21:56:57","slug":"am-i-on-the-right-track-for-finding-a-spouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/am-i-on-the-right-track-for-finding-a-spouse\/","title":{"rendered":"Am I on the right track for finding a spouse?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>I know the kind of man I want to marry and I am ready for marriage. I am not dating anyone because I will be leaving the country to study overseas, but I want the person I want to marry to come from that country I am going to study. I am fasting and praying to God to make it happen. Am I on the right track?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>I&#8217;m glad you are approaching marriage with forethought, but what does the nationality of a potential husband have to do with him making a good husband?<\/p>\n<p>Pray that God helps you find a solid man who will be a great husband and father of your children. But don&#8217;t start qualifying it with things that won&#8217;t affect your marriage, such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;Lord, I want to marry a faithful man, but make sure he is over 6&#8242; 3&#8243;.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Father, I want to marry a loving, tender man, but he has to have curly hair.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A bit silly, but I hope you see the point. If you happen to find a wonderful man with whom you are willing to spend the rest of your life, great! But if it doesn&#8217;t work out, understand that life goes as God&#8217;s sees is best for us in the long run. You never know, you might find Mr. Right when you return.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I know the kind of man I want to marry and I am ready for marriage. I am not dating anyone because I will be leaving the country to study overseas, but I want the person I want to marry to come from that country I am going to study. I am fasting and&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[149],"class_list":["post-8028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-dating"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":38914,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-a-man-converting-to-islam-marry-another-wife\/","url_meta":{"origin":8028,"position":0},"title":"Can a man, converting to Islam marry another wife?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"May 11, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: My friend married a Christian in a church wedding. 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