Shouldn’t the divorce decree mention sexual unfaithfulness?<\/a> The modern practice is to put something vague down as the reason for a divorce. It avoids having to prove the claim in court. Thus, the decree only proves that the divorce took place, not why it happened.<\/p>\nIt sounds like the evidence is strong that his ex-wife was committing adultery and continues to live that way. He shouldn’t destroy his current marriage because of his fears.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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