{"id":7774,"date":"2006-11-11T21:22:45","date_gmt":"2006-11-12T03:22:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=7774"},"modified":"2019-08-19T21:26:45","modified_gmt":"2019-08-20T02:26:45","slug":"will-masturbating-when-single-cause-harm-later-when-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/will-masturbating-when-single-cause-harm-later-when-married\/","title":{"rendered":"Will masturbating when single cause harm later when married?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Is masturbating unsafe? Will it cause harm later in marriage?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>See &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-masturbation-unacceptable\/\">Is masturbation unacceptable?<\/a>&#8221; for a discussion about whether it is right or wrong.<\/p>\n<p>In regards to marriage, most men who use masturbation as a way to curb their sexual desire find that it is no longer needed after marriage (I Corinthians 7:1-9), except in rare occasions when sex with one&#8217;s spouse is not possible for an extended period.<\/p>\n<p>Those who use it to stimulate their sexual desire, especially those who use pornography and unclean thoughts about women to inflame their desire, find it difficult to stop because of the bad habits they have created in themselves. Some find their imaginations more pleasant than reality and this harms the relationship between a husband and his wife.\u00a0See &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/a-look-at-pornography\/\">A Look at Pornography<\/a>&#8221; in regards to the damage pornography can do to a person.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Is masturbating unsafe? Will it cause harm later in marriage? Answer: See &#8220;Is masturbation unacceptable?&#8221; for a discussion about whether it is right or wrong. In regards to marriage, most men who use masturbation as a way to curb their sexual desire find that it is no longer needed after marriage (I Corinthians 7:1-9),&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[171],"class_list":["post-7774","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-masturbation"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":21638,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/does-this-article-prove-masturbation-is-a-sin\/","url_meta":{"origin":7774,"position":0},"title":"Does this article prove masturbation is a sin?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 9, 2010","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I clearly understand that what you are saying is that the act of masturbation is not a sin. 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My question is: Would masturbating without thinking of such things and just masturbating\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":51863,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-masturbating-a-lack-of-self-control\/","url_meta":{"origin":7774,"position":2},"title":"Is masturbating a lack of self-control?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"November 6, 2017","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I found some of your insights on the subject of masturbation quite amazing. As an evangelical, we are taught to develop spiritual disciplines of which self-control is one. In fact, in Galatians 5:22 the apostle Paul highlights it as one of the fruits of the Spirit. To this effect,\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":14188,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-masturbating-wrong-for-women\/","url_meta":{"origin":7774,"position":3},"title":"Is masturbating wrong for women?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"February 12, 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I am a female, Christian, and a young adult who has some questions\u00a0about the topic of masturbation: Is masturbation wrong for women? (It seems as if God doesn't talk about women, he seems to just mention \"semen\"). 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