{"id":68457,"date":"2024-06-19T17:18:33","date_gmt":"2024-06-19T22:18:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=68457"},"modified":"2024-06-19T17:18:33","modified_gmt":"2024-06-19T22:18:33","slug":"how-do-you-deal-with-a-fear-of-missing-out","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-do-you-deal-with-a-fear-of-missing-out\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you deal with a fear of missing out?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Dear sir,<\/p>\n<p>I trust this email finds you well.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m writing to seek more knowledge. Are there biblical passages that speak of the fear of missing out? As humans and most especially Gen Z, we often bow to peer pressure and the fear of missing out on godly things. Is there any biblical passage or reference that speaks to these facts?<\/p>\n<p>Thanks.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>At the root of this fear is envy. You are not content with life as it comes. You believe that you must experience more to be truly happy. &#8220;<em>Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am<\/em>&#8221; (Philippians 4:11).<\/p>\n<p>Envy is desiring what belongs to another. It is one of the reasons people are pulled into sin. They see the apparent happiness and prosperity of sinners and want to experience the same. &#8220;<em>Do not let your heart envy sinners, but live in the fear of the LORD always<\/em>&#8221; (Proverbs 23:17). However, we can also envy those the Lord has blessed. This is a part of the reason Cain slew his brother. God had accepted Abel&#8217;s sacrifices. Instead of improving his own, Cain decided to kill the one who did better than he. Esau became bitter over his brother because Jacob received the blessing, even though this was foretold before their births. We must realize that just because someone else has received a blessing, my life isn&#8217;t less.<\/p>\n<p>I must also accept that my life is short (James 4:14). I won&#8217;t be able to experience many things because there just isn&#8217;t enough time. I make choices regarding what I would like to do, but those same choices mean I must eliminate other things. Regardless, I learned to enjoy what I have. Even if I die tomorrow, I want to say I had a blessed life because that is the truth. I&#8217;m sure there will be more to experience as my life on earth continues, but I don&#8217;t <em>need<\/em> more to say that I&#8217;ve enjoyed the life God has given me.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus<\/em>&#8221; (Philippians 4:6-7).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Dear sir, I trust this email finds you well. I&#8217;m writing to seek more knowledge. Are there biblical passages that speak of the fear of missing out? As humans and most especially Gen Z, we often bow to peer pressure and the fear of missing out on godly things. Is there any biblical passage&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[583,352],"class_list":["post-68457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-envy","tag-fear"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":53782,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/am-i-following-god-because-of-my-fear-of-hell-and-my-selfish-desire-to-be-saved\/","url_meta":{"origin":68457,"position":0},"title":"Am I following God because of my fear of hell and my selfish desire to be saved?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"August 3, 2018","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hello, I have been a Christian for most of my life. 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I feel as though it all stems from a rebellious attitude inside of me.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":94841,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/envy-crucified-jesus\/","url_meta":{"origin":68457,"position":2},"title":"Envy Crucified Jesus","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"March 30, 2026","format":false,"excerpt":"by Terry Wane Benton Pilate knew that it was only because of envy that the Jewish leaders had brought Jesus to his judgment seat (Matthew 27:18). He thought that their envy was not so great that they would want a \"notorious prisoner,\" Barabbas, released instead of Jesus, but this was\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Article&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Article","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/article\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":14560,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/thank-you-so-much-for-your-article-on-envy\/","url_meta":{"origin":68457,"position":3},"title":"Thank you so much for your article on envy","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"March 30, 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I just wanted to thank you so much for your article on\u00a0'envy'. I really didn't realize there was any hope until I read this. Envy has literally swallowed me whole even though I've been saved for almost eight years. Your article or lesson really inspired me a lot and\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":88181,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/faith\/","url_meta":{"origin":68457,"position":4},"title":"Faith","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 27, 2025","format":false,"excerpt":"by Terry Wane Benton Biblical faith is believing in God, believing what His word (the Bible) says, trusting Him enough to be refreshed and reassured by His promises, yielding and submissive to His Sovereignty, and active in obeying His commands. When any of these ingredients are fading or missing, then\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Article&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Article","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/article\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":14562,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/envy\/","url_meta":{"origin":68457,"position":5},"title":"Envy","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"July 27, 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"by Jeffrey W. Hamilton I.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Most of us understand that it is wrong to be envious. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0A.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Though most of us have only a vague idea what envy means. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0B.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Often we confuse it with jealousy. 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