{"id":67666,"date":"2024-04-16T17:55:47","date_gmt":"2024-04-16T22:55:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=67666"},"modified":"2024-04-17T18:02:05","modified_gmt":"2024-04-17T23:02:05","slug":"is-it-wrong-to-ask-for-forgiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-it-wrong-to-ask-for-forgiveness\/","title":{"rendered":"Is it wrong to ask for forgiveness?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Good day, I hope you are well,<\/p>\n<p>My question here is twofold. First, I was taught that we shouldn&#8217;t ask for forgiveness; instead, we should thank God for his forgiveness. This, though, feels both right and wrong. This confuses me a bit because nowhere in the Scripture does it say we need to say &#8220;thank you.&#8221; Instead, I find it repeatedly saying that we need to repent, which in itself implies saying sorry and asking for forgiveness. Is this a fault in my thinking?<\/p>\n<p>Secondly, I don&#8217;t know <em>how<\/em> to pray. Know how, but what I mean is that I don&#8217;t know what I <em>can<\/em> pray for. Now, technically, I can pray for anything, but that doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s going to work. For example, I know I need to give thanks, and I know I need to pray for sins, but what I mean is, praying for a car, for example, I know is wrong but is praying for God&#8217;s guidance counterintuitive given that God, as in the New Testament, does not guide us as He did the apostles through the Holy Ghost? Basically, I don&#8217;t know what I can or can&#8217;t pray for.<\/p>\n<p>Kind regards.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>When Jesus taught his disciples to pray, one part of that example prayer was asking for forgiveness.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>And He said to them, &#8220;When you pray, say: &#8216;Father, hallowed be Your name. Your kingdom come. Give us each day our daily bread. And <strong>forgive us our sins<\/strong>, for we ourselves also forgive everyone who is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation&#8217;<\/em>&#8221; (Luke 6:2-4).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Daniel offered a prayer on behalf of all Israel, saying, &#8220;<em><strong>O Lord, hear! O Lord, forgive!<\/strong> O Lord, listen and take action! For Your own sake, O my God, do not delay, because Your city and Your people are called by Your name<\/em>&#8221; (Daniel 9:19). Even earlier, while dedicating the temple Solomon prayed that it would be place where people could come to ask God for forgiveness (I Kings 8:30,34,39,50).<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, God expects people to ask Him for forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>In regards to what we should pray for, see:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-can-we-be-confident-that-god-will-answer-our-prayers\/\">How can we be confident that God will answer our prayers?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/does-god-answer-every-prayer\/\">Does God Answer Every Prayer?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/the-prayer-in-my-hand\/\">The Prayer in My Hand<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t<h2>Response:<\/h2>\n<p>Thank you for your response. I truly do appreciate it.<\/p>\n<p>God bless you.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Good day, I hope you are well, My question here is twofold. 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