{"id":66823,"date":"2024-02-29T15:12:38","date_gmt":"2024-02-29T21:12:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=66823"},"modified":"2024-02-29T15:12:38","modified_gmt":"2024-02-29T21:12:38","slug":"what-if-a-withdrawn-from-brother-continues-to-attend-services","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/what-if-a-withdrawn-from-brother-continues-to-attend-services\/","title":{"rendered":"What if a withdrawn from brother continues to attend services?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Greetings Brother Hamilton,<\/p>\n<p>I am concerned about the withdrawal of membership from a brother in sin. I read through <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/tag\/fellowship\/\">your notes on fellowship<\/a> and understood them, but I want to be precise. When a brother is withdrawn from fellowship with other Christians, can he still come to worship but is prevented from partaking in the Lord&#8217;s supper, giving, and exchanging pleasantries? Secondly, is it out of place for that congregation to send a letter to sister congregations notifying them of this development and instructing them to avoid such a brother?<\/p>\n<p>Thank you, sir.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know if you looked at &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/withdraw-yourselves\/\">Withdraw Yourselves<\/a>,&#8221; but it has a lot of details.<\/p>\n<p>Just because a person has been withdrawn from, it doesn&#8217;t mean he will listen to the church. I have heard of people who continue to attend because they thought the church was in error or because they wanted to annoy those who took a stand against them.<\/p>\n<p>Withdrawal means that all ties are severed. The person is to be treated the same as any other non-Christian (Matthew 18:17). This doesn&#8217;t mean you are rude or harsh with the person (II Thessalonians 3:15), but that you don&#8217;t associate with him (II Thessalonians 3:14). You don&#8217;t ask him about how his week had been. You don&#8217;t invite him to join the other Christians who are going out for a snack (I Corinthians 5:11). In other words, you avoid him as best you can (II Thessalonians 3:6; Romans 16:17; II John 9-11). If he asks to join the brethren in some activity, you politely reject his request (Titus 3:10).<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t practice closed communion. If someone invites himself to partake, we won&#8217;t stop him, but we also won&#8217;t go out of our way to offer the Lord&#8217;s Supper to him either. If he comes to services, he should basically be ignored or politely asked if he has considered leaving his sins.<\/p>\n<p>Each congregation is autonomous. One congregation cannot tell another congregation what to do. If a congregation asks if someone is a member of the congregation, a letter can be sent telling them briefly of the situation. If a congregation knows someone is going around spreading false doctrine, the congregation can warn neighboring congregations to be careful. If someone is a well-known brother and it is believed he is using his former connection to the congregation to advance himself, then again, a notice can be sent that he is no longer associated with the congregation.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Greetings Brother Hamilton, I am concerned about the withdrawal of membership from a brother in sin. I read through your notes on fellowship and understood them, but I want to be precise. When a brother is withdrawn from fellowship with other Christians, can he still come to worship but is prevented from partaking in&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[254],"class_list":["post-66823","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-withdrawal"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":27471,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/what-do-we-do-if-a-withdrawn-from-relative-comes-to-a-family-gathering\/","url_meta":{"origin":66823,"position":0},"title":"What do we do if a withdrawn-from relative comes to a family gathering?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"May 19, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I was just reading your answer to a young man about\u00a0his brother in regard to I Corinthians 5:11.\u00a0 My husband's family has a similar situation with his older brother.\u00a0 His brother claims to still be a believer but left the fellowship at the church my father-in-law planted due to\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":3177,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/are-there-exceptions-to-withdrawal\/","url_meta":{"origin":66823,"position":1},"title":"Are there exceptions to withdrawal?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"September 11, 2005","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I have been studying the issue of fellowship within the family. In other words, I have family who are erring brethren and walk not as God has commanded. In accordance with I Corinthians 5 and other verses which say \"not even to eat,\" are there guidelines or principles for\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":57513,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/do-you-fellowship-with-someone-who-left-the-church\/","url_meta":{"origin":66823,"position":2},"title":"Do you fellowship with someone who left the church?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"January 2, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: If someone leaves the church and you try to encourage them to come back, are you to fellowship with them? Answer: Fellowship describes the state of a relationship between two people. It is like the word \"friendship.\" Friends do things together, but just because you do something with another\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":66857,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-one-congregation-withdraw-from-another-congregation\/","url_meta":{"origin":66823,"position":3},"title":"Can one congregation withdraw from another congregation?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"March 2, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Can a church withdraw from Christians who are not members of the local congregation? 1.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Mark those who cause division and hindrances -\u00a0Romans 16:17 2.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Philippians 3:17\u00a0- Mark those who are good examples 3.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Galatians 5:15\u00a0- Don't bite and devour each other. C.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Can a church withdraw from another church? Hey Brother Hamilton!\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":26819,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/can-a-congregation-restore-a-person-who-was-disfellowshipped-by-another-congregation\/","url_meta":{"origin":66823,"position":4},"title":"Can a congregation restore a person who was disfellowshipped by another congregation?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"November 5, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Can a congregation restore a person who was disfellowshipped by another congregation? Answer: Members of a congregation withdraw their fellowship of someone in their midst who is living a sinful life. See\u00a0Withdraw Yourselves for details. 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