{"id":61032,"date":"2008-05-29T17:10:00","date_gmt":"2008-05-29T22:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=61032"},"modified":"2023-05-29T17:13:23","modified_gmt":"2023-05-29T22:13:23","slug":"wholesome-adultery","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wholesome-adultery\/","title":{"rendered":"Wholesome Adultery?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\tby Sherman Wilson\n

In the Saturday, June 24, 1995 issue of the Owensboro Messenger-Inquirer, our local daily newspaper, the entertainment section contained a capsule review of the movies currently showing in our city. I quote from the review of\u00a0The Bridges of Madison County<\/em>: “From Clint Eastwood comes a wholesome romance about adultery.”<\/p>\n

Now I ask, “How\u00a0can<\/strong>\u00a0adultery\u00a0ever<\/strong>\u00a0be ‘wholesome’?” For those who believe the Bible, please read Galatians 5:19-21. There are 17 specific sins listed, one of which is adultery. While the sins are not listed alphabetically, adultery is the very first one mentioned. It is listed right along with murder among the 17 and Paul ends by saying, “They which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.<\/em>” Can “murder” ever be described as “wholesome”? God appears to feel that adultery is just as bad as murder! This appears to be unreasonable in the eyes of most humans, including this writer. Frankly, it seems to me that taking someone’s life would have to be the most vile sin of all. After all, the murdered person may not have obeyed the gospel and, if he had lived, there was always the chance that he would have eventually obeyed and had a promise of eternal life. While the sin of murder can be forgiven if the murderer truly repents, it is the only one of the 17 sins that is permanent as restitution for the life of the murder victim is, of course, impossible. However, even though it is hard to accept that adultery is just as bad as murder, we must never lose sight of the fact that God does not view things as we humans view them. Isaiah 55:8-9 says, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts<\/em>” This is a truth that most people have never learned (or accepted).<\/p>\n

To those who have committed adultery, or are “thinking about it,” what about the “Golden Rule” as set forth by Jesus (Matthew 7:12)? It says we should do unto others as we would have them do unto us. Well, would you want\u00a0your<\/strong>\u00a0spouse to commit adultery against you?<\/p>\n

I have heard people justify adultery by saying, “But am I not entitled to happiness?” Will your adultery make him\/her happy? Remember your wedding vows – “As long as we both shall\u00a0live<\/strong>” not “As long as we both shall\u00a0love<\/strong>” – as the T.V. character “Rhoda” was asked by the preacher to vow in her famous wedding scene several years ago.<\/p>\n

The recent T.V. movie of Elizabeth Taylor’s life pointed out that she had been married eight times, including twice to Richard Burton. In one scene, she is depicted as saying, “Don’t I have the right to be happy?” To that, I ask, what about the husbands she left for other men over the years? Weren’t they<\/strong>\u00a0entitled to happiness? What about Eddie Fisher and Richard Burton’s wives? Didn’t Debbie Reynolds Fisher and Sybil Burton have a right to happiness? Didn’t their children have a right to be raised by\u00a0both<\/strong>\u00a0of their natural parents?<\/p>\n

As someone once said, “My\u00a0right<\/strong>\u00a0to swing my arm ends at the point of your <\/b>nose!”<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

by Sherman Wilson In the Saturday, June 24, 1995 issue of the Owensboro Messenger-Inquirer, our local daily newspaper, the entertainment section contained a capsule review of the movies currently showing in our city. 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