{"id":60849,"date":"2014-05-22T19:32:00","date_gmt":"2014-05-23T00:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=60849"},"modified":"2023-05-22T19:35:59","modified_gmt":"2023-05-23T00:35:59","slug":"what-do-you-do-for-fun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/what-do-you-do-for-fun\/","title":{"rendered":"What Do You Do For Fun?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\tby Jim McGuiggan<br \/>\nin\u00a0<em>The Irish Papers<\/em>\n<p>A young man tried to talk a young lady into sexual intercourse but she wouldn&#8217;t hear tell of it. Then he offered her booze she wouldn&#8217;t touch. A little later he wanted to share some marijuana with her but she turned that down, too. By this time he was thoroughly disgusted and sulkily demanded to know what she did for fun. She said:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Seduction-215x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"215\" height=\"300\" \/>&#8220;I never have to worry about being diseased or pregnant. And that&#8217;s fun! That means I don&#8217;t have to wrestle with a decision to abort an unwanted baby; and that&#8217;s fun. And I don&#8217;t have to wonder if I&#8217;m being pawed over by someone who might not want to know me a couple of months from now. And that&#8217;s fun. I never have any difficulty remembering what I did the night before and who I did it with; and that&#8217;s fun, too. And I&#8217;m looking forward to the day when I can give myself totally to my husband rather than give a panicky fraction of me in the back seat of some car. And that&#8217;s fun. I can hardly wait, but I will. I won&#8217;t ever have to worry about getting a blood test that tells me I have AIDS or some other venereal disease; and believe me, that&#8217;s fun. My parents love me more than I can say and if I were to get into trouble, of any kind, they&#8217;d be right there with me. But I never have to worry about seeing them crushed and shamed by some disgraceful behavior of mine, and believe me, as much as I love them &#8211; that&#8217;s really fun.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Jim McGuiggan in\u00a0The Irish Papers A young man tried to talk a young lady into sexual intercourse but she wouldn&#8217;t hear tell of it. Then he offered her booze she wouldn&#8217;t touch. A little later he wanted to share some marijuana with her but she turned that down, too. By this time he was&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[27],"tags":[149,759,908,38],"class_list":["post-60849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-article","tag-dating","tag-entertainment","tag-health","tag-morality"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":7075,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/do-members-of-the-church-of-christ-believe-they-are-the-only-ones-going-to-heaven\/","url_meta":{"origin":60849,"position":0},"title":"Do members of the church of Christ believe they are the only ones going to heaven?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"August 17, 2006","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Does the church of Christ believe they're the only ones going to heaven? 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Hamilton Text: Titus 2:6-8 \u00a0 I.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0In the Seattle Weekly, August 21, 2002, Philip Dawdy wrote an article titled \u201cWhat Little Boys Are Made Of\u201d \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0A.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0The thrust of the article is that school systems are biased against the way boys generally behave. 85% of the students in the\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Audio&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Audio","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/audio\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":5313,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/what-does-your-clothing-say\/","url_meta":{"origin":60849,"position":4},"title":"What Does Your Clothing Say?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"December 24, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"by Jeffrey W. Hamilton Text: Matthew 22:2-14 \u00a0 I.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Take a look at these pictures and tell me what you think. \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0A.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Men \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a01.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Who is the most rebellious? \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a02.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Who works hard? \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a03.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Who doesn\u2019t care what others think? \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a04.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Who is the most practical? \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a05.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Who is the most studious? \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a06.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Who is the most fun\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Audio&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Audio","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/audio\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":63200,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/things-my-mom-taught-me\/","url_meta":{"origin":60849,"position":5},"title":"Things My Mom Taught Me","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"October 10, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"by Dee Bowman (1934-2021) Christianity Magazine, May 1997 It's hard losing your parents. 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