{"id":55742,"date":"2007-11-13T08:18:00","date_gmt":"2007-11-13T14:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=55742"},"modified":"2022-11-13T08:21:13","modified_gmt":"2022-11-13T14:21:13","slug":"dads-nine-rules-for-living","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/dads-nine-rules-for-living\/","title":{"rendered":"Dad&#8217;s Nine Rules for Living"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\tby Frank Walton<br \/>\nUpon the occasion of his daughter&#8217;s high school graduation.<br \/>\nvia\u00a0<em>Biblical Insights<\/em>, Vol. 7, No. 8, Aug. 2007.\n<h3 align=\"left\">1. Put God First<\/h3>\n<p>We exist for His glory and then to enjoy Him forever (I John 17:3).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding<\/em>&#8221; (Proverbs 9:10).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>2. Follow Jesus Daily<\/h3>\n<p>He became as we are, in order to make us like He is (I John 2:6).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>I am the way, and the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father but through Me<\/em>&#8221; (John 14:6).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>3. Study the Bible Regularly<\/h3>\n<p>Scripture is God&#8217;s one and only guidebook to eternity. (Acts 20:32).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path<\/em>&#8221; (Psalms 119:105).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>4. Pray Constantly<\/h3>\n<p>It keeps us close to heaven&#8217;s pure air for the soul (Romans 12:12).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need<\/em>&#8221; (Hebrews 4: 16).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>5. Think Hopefully<\/h3>\n<p>Our life is what our thoughts make it. (Proverbs 17:22).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Watch over your heart with all diligence, for from it flow the springs of life<\/em>&#8221; (Proverbs 4: 23).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>6. Improve Yourself Consistently<\/h3>\n<p>With God&#8217;s help, you can make the best of any situation (Philippians 4:13).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus<\/em>&#8221; (Philippians 3:14).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>7. Do the Right Thing Always<\/h3>\n<p>Character is the sum of all our choices (Proverbs 27:19).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>The path of the righteous is like the light of dawn, that shines brighter and brighter until the full day<\/em>&#8221; (Proverbs 4:18).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>8. Treat Others Lovingly<\/h3>\n<p>God put us on earth to help lift others up to heaven (Matthew 7:12).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Let your light shine before men in such a way tht they may see your good works, and glorify your Father Who is in heaven<\/em>&#8221; (Matthew 5:16).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3>9. Be a Faithful Member of Christ&#8217;s Church<\/h3>\n<p>Jesus is counting on you to carry on His work by exercising your talents in His one body (Ephesians 4:16).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>Be faithful until death, and I will give you the crown of life<\/em>&#8221; (Revelation 2:10).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I am proud that you are my favorite oldest daughter.<\/p>\n<p>Love, Dad<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Frank Walton Upon the occasion of his daughter&#8217;s high school graduation. via\u00a0Biblical Insights, Vol. 7, No. 8, Aug. 2007. 1. Put God First We exist for His glory and then to enjoy Him forever (I John 17:3). &#8220;The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the Holy One&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[27,1028,1034],"tags":[665,642,29,1509,107],"class_list":["post-55742","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-article","category-parenting","category-teenager","tag-child-rearing","tag-christianity","tag-parenting","tag-parents","tag-raising-children"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":24242,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/he-restrained-them-not\/","url_meta":{"origin":55742,"position":0},"title":"He Restrained Them Not (Iverson)","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"July 31, 2020","format":false,"excerpt":"by John Iverson Do you think juvenile delinquency is an evil that is peculiar to our day? 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