{"id":55480,"date":"2007-11-04T20:53:00","date_gmt":"2007-11-05T02:53:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=55480"},"modified":"2022-11-04T20:55:29","modified_gmt":"2022-11-05T01:55:29","slug":"choosing-friends","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/choosing-friends\/","title":{"rendered":"Choosing Friends"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\tby James E. Cooper\n<p>One of my college professors observed: &#8220;Fate made your relatives; choice makes your friends.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/11\/friends.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"100\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Those whom you choose to be your closest friends indicate what your attitude is toward spiritual things. It is a psychological fact that we are drawn to those who share our interests. Devoted Christians will want to associate with the spiritual and godly; those who are not interested in spiritual matters will select the ungodly as their friends. Beware when your best friends are those who are not interested in the Lord&#8217;s church (your associates tell on you). Further, &#8220;<em>Evil companionships corrupt good morals<\/em>&#8221; (I Corinthians 15:58).<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by James E. Cooper One of my college professors observed: &#8220;Fate made your relatives; choice makes your friends.&#8221; Those whom you choose to be your closest friends indicate what your attitude is toward spiritual things. It is a psychological fact that we are drawn to those who share our interests. 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