{"id":55149,"date":"2009-10-11T21:03:00","date_gmt":"2009-10-12T02:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=55149"},"modified":"2022-10-11T21:05:30","modified_gmt":"2022-10-12T02:05:30","slug":"be-a-better-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/be-a-better-person\/","title":{"rendered":"Be a Better Person"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\tby Carey Scott\n<p>Don&#8217;t we all wish that everyone would be a better person? Do we not hope that some bad people would turn their lives around and start doing good? Do we wish our neighbors would treat us better than before? Do we hope that the people we meet each day would show us respect and treat us fairly? If we expect others to be nicer and fairer, should we not make the effort as well? The golden rule is that we should treat others the way we would want them to treat us.<\/p>\n<p>Be a better person now. Do not wait until next year and make a resolution about it. Do not put it off until next week or even tomorrow. Start right now. Look at the person closest to you and show them love. Pick up the phone and call someone who would appreciate thoughtful consideration. Help someone who needs it, and even if they do not need help, help them anyways. Perhaps they will turn the favor and help someone else. If we would just try, we could turn our society around and make it a pleasant adventure each day to interact with others. Smile. Wish someone a nice day. Be courteous. Encourage others to be good. Tell people about God and His promises. Read I John 3:17 and meditate upon it.<\/p>\n<p>I John 3:18 reads: &#8220;<em>Little children, let us not love with word or with tongue, but in deed and truth.<\/em>&#8221; Don&#8217;t just talk the talk, but walk the walk. Show your love to others.<\/p>\n<p>I John 4:20 reads: &#8220;<em>If someone says, &#8216;I love God&#8217;, and hates his brother, he is a liar; for the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.<\/em>&#8220;<\/p>\n<p>One way to turn your life around is to change your focus. When you focus on God you become a better person. When you focus on helping others, you become a better person. Our goal is to get people focused on God and become people that are better. Our community would be much better if more people were better.<\/p>\n<p>Come and visit us. Come worship God with us. Let us help you get to heaven and you come to encourage us to get to heaven as well. We know that God is not willing that any perish (II Peter 3:9). You must believe that Jesus is the Son of God and died on the cross for your sins. (Acts 8:37). You must repent of your sins (Luke 13:3), you must confess Jesus as Lord (Matthew 10:32) and you must be baptized for the remission of sins (Acts 2:38; 22:16). Then you must remain faithful and continue learning how to serve God (II Peter 3:18). Let us help you on your spiritual journey. May God bless you in your study of His word.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Carey Scott Don&#8217;t we all wish that everyone would be a better person? Do we not hope that some bad people would turn their lives around and start doing good? Do we wish our neighbors would treat us better than before? Do we hope that the people we meet each day would show us&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[27],"tags":[642,374,1287],"class_list":["post-55149","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-article","tag-christianity","tag-happiness","tag-joy"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":39444,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/how-should-christians-treat-illegal-aliens\/","url_meta":{"origin":55149,"position":0},"title":"How should Christians treat illegal aliens?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"June 25, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: How should Christians feel about illegal aliens? 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