The problem for me is that you have been completely ignoring God’s law and now want me to fix it while you continue to sin. “Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge<\/em>” (Hebrews 13:4). From what I gather you have been living with and having sex with one woman while going around having sex with other women. You tell me that you know you’ve sinned, but it sounds like you are still involved in sin.<\/p>\n If you decide to marry the woman you are currently sleeping with, you need to tell her that you have a child with another woman and that you are responsible for the child’s support. If she dumps you, then there is nothing you can do about it.<\/p>\n Regardless, you are responsible for the child you made. Regardless, you have to stop having sex and living with women or sleeping with women you are not married to. 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