{"id":43615,"date":"2014-09-27T15:30:00","date_gmt":"2014-09-27T20:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=43615"},"modified":"2022-02-23T15:33:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T21:33:21","slug":"if-i-havent-married-yet-can-i-still-be-a-deacon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/if-i-havent-married-yet-can-i-still-be-a-deacon\/","title":{"rendered":"If I haven&#8217;t married yet, can I still be a deacon?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Good day, Bro. Jeffrey,<\/p>\n<p>I write this email in order to seek a mature answer and guidance from a well-rounded spiritual leader. Our local church here wants to appoint deacons since we don&#8217;t have formally appointed ones. We already studied the apostle Paul&#8217;s teachings on appointing deacons based on I Timothy 3:8-12 for many years and even reviewed it. I have a great feeling that I will be appointed as one. I am just considering the fact that I am still single and it might be contrary to what verse 12 says &#8220;husband to one wife and manage children and household well.&#8221; I strongly believe that a New Testament Christian must follow the rightful patterns of church worship and that includes overseeing and administrative works in the church. I have not come yet to decide to marry since I haven&#8217;t found the right Christian woman. What should I do in case I will be appointed to such an office?<\/p>\n<p>I have been teaching Bible classes since I was a college student and I am happy with what the Lord has bestowed to me, such a gift of teaching you cannot say no to glorify Him. Would it be appropriate to accept the appointment?<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>See\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/servants-of-the-church\/\">Servants of the Church<\/a> for details about what deacons are, the duties they perform, and their qualifications.<\/p>\n<p>The command, &#8220;<em>Deacons must be husbands of only one wife, and good managers of their children and their own households<\/em>&#8221; (I Timothy 3:12), leaves no room for alterations. A deacon\u00a0<strong>must be<\/strong> a husband and have children that he is raising well. This doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t do service for the church, but you cannot hold a position of deacon representing the church since you are not yet qualified.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Response:<\/h2>\n<p>Bro. Jeffrey,<\/p>\n<p>Thank you so much for the enlightenment and encouragement. It is prayed and hoped for the Lord&#8217;s church&#8217;s growth and benevolence.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Good day, Bro. Jeffrey, I write this email in order to seek a mature answer and guidance from a well-rounded spiritual leader. Our local church here wants to appoint deacons since we don&#8217;t have formally appointed ones. We already studied the apostle Paul&#8217;s teachings on appointing deacons based on I Timothy 3:8-12 for many&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[1568],"class_list":["post-43615","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-deacons"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":58913,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/do-you-think-committees-are-necessary-when-there-are-no-elders-or-deacons\/","url_meta":{"origin":43615,"position":0},"title":"Do you think committees are necessary when there are no elders or deacons?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"February 11, 2023","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hi! Thanks for the enlightening content on your site. I read the answer you gave to a question that was about creating committees to carry out tasks for a congregation. 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