Okay so on the subject of living together before marriage: I chose this before I knew God. Now, I am stuck in this situation. I have repented for having premarital sex. My boyfriend and I will be getting married soon. Will I go to hell if I die? I have nowhere else to go for the time being. I know I won’t have sex or anything of that nature with him.<\/p>\n\t
Living righteously isn’t always convenient, but it can always be done.<\/p>\n
I don’t know how soon “soon” is, but you do have options:<\/p>\n
All of these avoid setting a bad example and decrease the temptation to have sex again before marriage. “Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this, not to put a stumbling block or a cause to fall in our brother’s way<\/em>” (Romans 14:13).<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Question: Okay so on the subject of living together before marriage: I chose this before I knew God. Now, I am stuck in this situation. I have repented for having premarital sex. My boyfriend and I will be getting married soon. Will I go to hell if I die? 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