What is your proof that prophecy has ended?<\/a><\/p>\nAs you noticed nothing that was told to your girlfriend is out of the ordinary. Of course, a person who just graduated from college is likely to find a job. He clearly is describing a man within his own church whom he has in mind encouraging your girlfriend to marry. By stating up front what kind of car she is going to buy (a large purchase typically made by someone with a new job), he influenced her decision. This sort of thing is the kind of thing county fair psychics claim to do. It isn’t how God showed Himself to operate with the Bible.<\/p>\n
But you are not likely to convince her otherwise. She would rather be lied to by a false prophet than to be with you because that prophet is telling her at least some things that she wants to hear. She is willing to give up some things, such as you, to gain what she thinks will be greater things. You could wait until it turns out that the things this man states are shown to be false (which may or may not happen), but the likely result is that she will have some other reason to claim that the prophecy had changed.<\/p>\n
What I would suggest is finding a woman who loves you and truly follows God and not men.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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