Hi!<\/p>\n
I have a huge problem, I am dating a guy with a kid. He doesn’t live with the kid; he says he has issues with the mom. At first, I didn’t mind dating him, but now it’s bothering me a lot. He goes to see the baby and sleeps in the same room with the baby’s mom. I feel like he disrespected me.<\/p>\n
Then there’s a time we argued because I took his phone and started chatting with her. But he’s the one who started the game, he took my phone and started to chat with my friend.<\/p>\n
The other problem is he never spends time with me. Every time I ask him if he’s free, he always has an excuse.\u00a0Since then we have broken up and it’s even worse. He rarely calls or says he cares about me. Did I make a mistake by telling him I am not letting him go? I love him and I think he loves me too, but he needs to be told how to treat his girlfriend.<\/p>\n
Please help because I am stressed.\u00a0 Thank you.<\/p>\n\t
With the few things you have told me, I am puzzled why you are continuing to see this man.<\/p>\n
He claims that he has issues with his child’s mother, yet he spends nights with her. Look at a person’s actions, they are closer to the truth than what a person says (Matthew 7:16-20).<\/p>\n
You claim to be in love, but you don’t treat each other with respect. He doesn’t make time to be with you. Read\u00a0Love is …<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0Love is Different<\/a>. You are discussing love as if it is a vague feeling and not as a choice to be dedicated to another person. You may have been infatuated with him at one time, but it has not developed into true love.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Question: Hi! I have a huge problem, I am dating a guy with a kid. He doesn’t live with the kid; he says he has issues with the mom. At first, I didn’t mind dating him, but now it’s bothering me a lot. 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