{"id":42073,"date":"2014-03-04T20:48:00","date_gmt":"2014-03-05T02:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=42073"},"modified":"2022-01-17T20:51:12","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T02:51:12","slug":"i-was-a-muslim-before-i-converted-to-christianity-what-do-i-do-about-my-second-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/i-was-a-muslim-before-i-converted-to-christianity-what-do-i-do-about-my-second-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"I was a Muslim before I converted to Christianity. What do I do about my second wife?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Shalom,<\/p>\n<p>Prior to becoming a Christian, I was a born Muslim and married two women. My question is what is the status of my second marriage and what shall I do with it? I have a child with my second marriage. I appreciate very much your biblical answer.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you and God blessed.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em>And He answered and said to them, &#8220;Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning &#8216;made them male and female,&#8217; and said, &#8216;For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh&#8217;? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate&#8221;<\/em>&#8221; (Matthew 19:4-6).<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The rule is that a man may marry a woman. Any other relationship outside of that marriage is adultery. Though the Muslim religion recognizes multiple marriages, it is not moral by God&#8217;s law. The second marriage is not truly a marriage recognized by God.<\/p>\n<p>You do owe the child you conceived support. It is not the child&#8217;s fault that you violated God&#8217;s law, even though it was through ignorance of what the Bible teaches. You also owe your second wife support until such time as she can find a job or a husband.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Response:<\/h2>\n<p>Thank you and God Blessed for your very quick and biblical answer.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Shalom, Prior to becoming a Christian, I was a born Muslim and married two women. My question is what is the status of my second marriage and what shall I do with it? I have a child with my second marriage. I appreciate very much your biblical answer. Thank you and God blessed. 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They say that when you go live with someone and have sex, that's a marriage according to the Bible because, in the Old Testament, that's how marriages were made.\u00a0They give the case of Isaac and Rebecca.\u2026","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Answer&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Answer","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/category\/answer\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":42431,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/were-adam-and-eve-married\/","url_meta":{"origin":42073,"position":4},"title":"Were Adam and Eve married?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"April 2, 2014","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hello! This might be a dumb question but someone brought it up today at school and it was a little confusing. If premarital sex is a sin, Adam and Eve weren't married, and they had sex. So is that why we are all born in sin? 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