{"id":42023,"date":"2014-03-01T21:29:00","date_gmt":"2014-03-02T03:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=42023"},"modified":"2022-01-16T21:32:35","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T03:32:35","slug":"why-do-i-have-a-knack-for-noticing-peoples-emotions-and-helping-them-calm-down","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/why-do-i-have-a-knack-for-noticing-peoples-emotions-and-helping-them-calm-down\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do I have a knack for noticing people&#8217;s emotions and helping them calm down?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Hello!<\/p>\n<p>I read\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/should-i-hone-my-skills-as-an-empath\/\">an answer to an &#8220;empath&#8221; question<\/a>. This has sparked another question within me. I have been a Christian and a member of the church of Christ for several years; however, I have a dilemma. I have always been able to &#8220;read emotions&#8221; and when I am around people who are feeling these strong emotions (whether good or bad) I tend to draw them away from the person. As an example I was with my friend at church one day when she came in and I could feel the fear rolling off of her in waves, my body&#8217;s natural tendency was to &#8220;suck up the fear&#8221;, I noticed her ease and she felt no more fear. She had explained later what it felt like: &#8220;One moment I thought I was drowning, and I knew I had to tell somebody, that&#8217;s why I came to you. But once I walked over the fear vanished! It was as\u00a0 if I was never afraid&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So if empaths are not real, claiming to be an empath is a lie, and a lie is a sin; what is the reasoning for what happens around me? I don&#8217;t tell people about what actually is happening just for the reason that I do not want the attention taken from God, and I don&#8217;t wish to be under Satan&#8217;s influence. Can you further explain anything to me?<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for your time.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>What everyone else would say is that you are simply a good listener. People are comfortable talking to you and in that way you share their burdens. &#8220;<em>Bear one another&#8217;s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ<\/em>&#8221; (Galatians 6:2). To ascribe this to some type of power to absorb other people&#8217;s feelings is false.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Hello! I read\u00a0an answer to an &#8220;empath&#8221; question. This has sparked another question within me. I have been a Christian and a member of the church of Christ for several years; however, I have a dilemma. I have always been able to &#8220;read emotions&#8221; and when I am around people who are feeling these&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[603],"class_list":["post-42023","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-psychics"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":27592,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-the-saying-follow-your-heart-wrong\/","url_meta":{"origin":42023,"position":0},"title":"Is the saying &#8220;follow your heart&#8221; wrong?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"May 26, 2011","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: I want to ask about these verses: \"The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. 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