{"id":41793,"date":"2014-02-04T19:33:00","date_gmt":"2014-02-05T01:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=41793"},"modified":"2022-01-11T19:34:53","modified_gmt":"2022-01-12T01:34:53","slug":"i-thought-i-would-not-have-sex-until-i-was-married-but-ive-broken-that-promise-three-times-already","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/i-thought-i-would-not-have-sex-until-i-was-married-but-ive-broken-that-promise-three-times-already\/","title":{"rendered":"I thought I would not have sex until I was married, but I&#8217;ve broken that promise three times already"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>I feel very terrible for what I have done, I feel like I am trapped in a world of sin and I can&#8217;t seem to find my way out. I took an oath last year in our church youth meetings to never engage in sexual acts until I was married, but ever since, I have broken that promise three times.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes when I ask for the Lord&#8217;s forgiveness I feel that He does not hear my prayers because I have sinned too many times and spat in His face, I am living a very difficult life when it comes to my faith. I don&#8217;t know what happens to me so that I give in to temptations so easily. I know our God is a forgiving Father, but I just feel that my sins are too many to be forgiven.<\/p>\n<p>Please help me I am a lost sheep.<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>That you can be forgiven is something God has stated repeatedly in His Bible and God cannot lie (Titus 1:2). &#8220;<em>But if a wicked man turns from all his sins which he has committed, keeps all My statutes, and does what is lawful and right, he shall surely live; he shall not die. None of the transgressions which he has committed shall be remembered against him; because of the righteousness which he has done, he shall live. &#8220;Do I have any pleasure at all that the wicked should die?&#8221; says the Lord GOD, &#8220;and not that he should turn from his ways and live?&#8221; <\/em>&#8221; (Ezekiel 18:21-23).<\/p>\n<p>It sounds as if you are sorrowful for your sins, but you haven&#8217;t really repented of them, or you haven&#8217;t taken steps to change. I&#8217;m willing to listen if you want to discuss the problems with someone.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: I feel very terrible for what I have done, I feel like I am trapped in a world of sin and I can&#8217;t seem to find my way out. I took an oath last year in our church youth meetings to never engage in sexual acts until I was married, but ever since, I&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[1572],"class_list":["post-41793","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-fornication"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":67952,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/am-i-bound-by-a-childhood-promise\/","url_meta":{"origin":41793,"position":0},"title":"Am I bound by a childhood promise?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"May 6, 2024","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Hi, Mr. Hamilton. 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