{"id":41750,"date":"2014-01-29T22:01:00","date_gmt":"2014-01-30T04:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/?p=41750"},"modified":"2022-01-10T22:04:45","modified_gmt":"2022-01-11T04:04:45","slug":"is-it-wrong-to-bow-to-elders-or-at-the-graves-of-those-who-had-died","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/is-it-wrong-to-bow-to-elders-or-at-the-graves-of-those-who-had-died\/","title":{"rendered":"Is it wrong to bow to elders or at the graves of those who had died?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n\t<h2>Question:<\/h2>\n<p>Hello,<\/p>\n<p>I have a few questions, I hope you don&#8217;t mind. In East Asian countries, it is customary to bow to elders and those older than you. Is this not allowed? Also, it is customary to bow to ancestors who&#8217;ve passed away at their graves. Is this not allowed as well?<\/p>\n<p>Thanks!<\/p>\n\t<h2>Answer:<\/h2>\n<p>In your region bowing is a sign of respect. In the Old Testament, older people were to be treated with respect. &#8220;<em>You shall rise before the gray headed and honor the presence of an old man, and fear your God: I am the LORD<\/em>&#8221; (Leviticus 19:32). In their culture one stood. In your culture, you bow.<\/p>\n<p>The graves of those who died only contain the remains of their mortal bodies. The people are not there. If the bow is merely a sign of respect to their memory, that is not a problem. If it is seen as attempting to incur the favor of those who have died, that would be wrong because the dead are no longer involved in life. &#8220;<em>For the living know that they will die; but the dead know nothing, and they have no more reward, for the memory of them is forgotten<\/em>&#8221; (Ecclesiastes 9:8). They cannot come back to this world. &#8220;<em>So man lies down and does not rise. Till the heavens are no more, they will not awake nor be roused from their sleep<\/em>&#8221; (Job 14:12).<\/p>\n\t<h2>Response:<\/h2>\n<p>Oh, I see. I understand now. Thank you!<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Question: Hello, I have a few questions, I hope you don&#8217;t mind. In East Asian countries, it is customary to bow to elders and those older than you. Is this not allowed? Also, it is customary to bow to ancestors who&#8217;ve passed away at their graves. Is this not allowed as well? Thanks! 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