Hello,<\/p>\n
I’m really grateful for the advice you gave to a lady battling with guilt and issues about whether to break up with her fianc\u00e9.\u00a0I had the same thoughts today, even though we have been trusting God for our wedding next year.\u00a0I felt the standards I had at first have diminished and from the look of things, I might be the cause of arousing him sexually; yet, to some point, I didn’t have the same feeling. I’ve decided to change my wardrobe because I have felt I’ve been careless about my dress.<\/p>\n
More thanks.<\/p>\n\t
I don’t know precisely which answer you had been looking at, but I am glad that it caused you to think about your behavior and make improvements in your life.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Question: Hello, I’m really grateful for the advice you gave to a lady battling with guilt and issues about whether to break up with her fianc\u00e9.\u00a0I had the same thoughts today, even though we have been trusting God for our wedding next year.\u00a0I felt the standards I had at first have diminished and from the…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[20],"tags":[366,662,365],"class_list":["post-41175","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-answer","tag-dress","tag-engagement","tag-modesty"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":44128,"url":"https:\/\/www.lavistachurchofchrist.org\/cms\/should-i-move-on-and-let-this-man-repair-his-family\/","url_meta":{"origin":41175,"position":0},"title":"Should I move on and let this man repair his family?","author":"Jeffrey Hamilton","date":"December 5, 2014","format":false,"excerpt":"Question: Good day, sir! 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